TheFinalWord Posted January 21, 2019 Posted January 21, 2019 NC is not designed to manipulate somebody into missing you & coming back. Absence does not make the heart grow fonder. That said, NC always works for it's intended purpose: Helping somebody heal & preserve their dignity (no begging) after a break up. Couldn't agree more. It's just often presented as a tactic to get an ex back. It's mostly about the dumpee getting their life back and realizing it's over. Sometimes and ex will miss, but it's often years later, after they have dated multiple other people (my experience). For example, one girl I dated like 10 years ago, we never talked. She wrote me on social media to let me know dumping me was the worst decision of her life and she'd leave her husband for me! Point being, the time that it takes to work...waiting around sulking is a waste of time.
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