Josh20 Posted January 18, 2019 Posted January 18, 2019 So this girl I dated 2 months dumped me 4 months ago for another guy thats just a total downgrade but I don't judgde, she's been laughing at me ever since for no rreason at all lol, she wanted to be friends 2 weeks after dumping me but I rejected. So recently about 1 week ago her best friend sent me a snap (picture) of my ex and herself basically a selfie to which I didn't reply but later on I removed her friend, her friend dated my best friend and she's pretty much harassing him in a way, but what I don't get why is she taking a selfie with my ex and sending it to me? She knows I wouldn't be happy seeing that, so after I deleted her she blocked me and blocked me on isntagram for whatever reason lol. So the same night my ex called my friend and asked if my friend is home, then asked if I'm home because she had a ''Car accident'' and apparently there was noone at her house and she didn't want to be all alone, to which my friend said no and blocked her number, now I don't get it why would she call my friend and ask for his help or my help? First of all i'm her ex and she has a boyfriend so she shouldn't even be talking to me, and second of all the crash was definitely fake because she was fine at college couple days later so was her friend... She could of informed so many other people rather than me or my friend and she deifnately didn't need to ask about me... So next day after that crash their mutual friend called my friend and said that me and my friend are''Heartless'' for not going and seeing them'' And coupel days after that, that same girl approched me and asked what I do at the college and I said i'm an apprenitce which i fouind weird lol I dont even know her... So yesterday her classmate that I dont really know but I'm acquintaces with recorded me while I was in my office, and posted it on snapchat, how weird is that? Why would he record me I don't even know this guy like what is happening? I didn't speak to him for months and he does that, like that is pretty weird, the thing is I deleted him off snapchat months ago, and then out of the blue I get tagged in his story? That same day when he posted me, my friend's girlfriend called him and said that he should delete it because Its my place of work and that I don't like it blah blah, to which I dont know if he deleted it or not but it doesn't matter.. According to my friend 10 minutes after that a random instagram account followed him with my favourite rapper's face as it's profile , with only 9 Followers and 119 following, my ex follows the account and that account follows my ex and her boyfriend and her ex's ex girlfriend's what is going on?
d0nnivain Posted January 18, 2019 Posted January 18, 2019 Your EX & her friends are immature. She wants attention & you are giving it to her. 1
Author Josh20 Posted January 18, 2019 Author Posted January 18, 2019 Your EX & her friends are immature. She wants attention & you are giving it to her. Am I? How so? I ignore her all the time, I seen her recently but I dont think she has and we dont talk at all all contact is cut off, I'm not sure how I am giving her attetntion.
d0nnivain Posted January 18, 2019 Posted January 18, 2019 Because you react when her friends tell you stuff. She's obviously still on your mind because you are posting about her here. 1
Author Josh20 Posted January 18, 2019 Author Posted January 18, 2019 Because you react when her friends tell you stuff. She's obviously still on your mind because you are posting about her here. Yeah mainly because of what was happening recently lol, matter of fact I spoke to her friend about her about a month ago since then I havent spoke about her or to her friends about her at all, most of this information is through my friend and they were calling and messaging my friend
d0nnivain Posted January 18, 2019 Posted January 18, 2019 Just tell who ever is the last conduit in the chain that you are not interested & to stop sharing these tidbits even tangentially connected to your ex 1
Author Josh20 Posted January 18, 2019 Author Posted January 18, 2019 Just tell who ever is the last conduit in the chain that you are not interested & to stop sharing these tidbits even tangentially connected to your ex Yeah I will do that thanks
Chi townD Posted January 20, 2019 Posted January 20, 2019 I got lost....You have a friend of a friends girlfriends friend.....too many friends to keep straight. Just ignore the drama. 1
Author Josh20 Posted January 23, 2019 Author Posted January 23, 2019 I got lost....You have a friend of a friends girlfriends friend.....too many friends to keep straight. Just ignore the drama. Yeah I know sorry my bad, but nonethless I don't know why she still feels the need to creat drama with me when she moved on with her boyfriend, I want nothing to do with her.
Author Josh20 Posted January 23, 2019 Author Posted January 23, 2019 18, it's been going on for too long, we broke up 4 months ago and shes been with her guy longer than we have I dont know why she doesnt leave me alone, I'm not sure if shes behind all this but its always something to do with her
ExpatInItaly Posted January 23, 2019 Posted January 23, 2019 I figured she was probably a teenager. At 18, she is not mature enough for a serious relationship. Her behaviour now is just another example of that. Ignore her. If her friends bother you, tell them directly to stop.
Author Josh20 Posted January 23, 2019 Author Posted January 23, 2019 I figured she was probably a teenager. At 18, she is not mature enough for a serious relationship. Her behaviour now is just another example of that. Ignore her. If her friends bother you, tell them directly to stop. Yeah you're right, I just find it really odd that she's still doing this even tho she's happy with her boyfriend whom she left me for i dont get it, it's been happening to long and this cant be just immaturity I think she's plain evil
ExpatInItaly Posted January 23, 2019 Posted January 23, 2019 If you think she's evil, be thankful she is not your problem anymore. I guarantee you won't even be thinking about her in a year.
Author Josh20 Posted January 24, 2019 Author Posted January 24, 2019 If you think she's evil, be thankful she is not your problem anymore. I guarantee you won't even be thinking about her in a year. I really hope so
Rockdad Posted January 24, 2019 Posted January 24, 2019 It's just run of the mill high school games. Don't waste your brain power trying to figure it out.
Author Josh20 Posted January 26, 2019 Author Posted January 26, 2019 It's just run of the mill high school games. Don't waste your brain power trying to figure it out. Yeah I'll try not to, its seemed like she stopped and moved on with her life thank god, havent heard anything about her or seen her for a week or 2 you think she'll stop?
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