thisjourney1 Posted January 18, 2019 Posted January 18, 2019 There is a guy that I no longer communicate with for good reasons but when we were still talking he would say things like and I quote “I’m gonna have to hurry up and get off the phone with you because if my friends find out I’m talking to you they will make fun of me and laugh.” Yes he would say things like that about me. Also he contacted my job and told my supervisor about our private personal life. He said and I quote, “will you tell her to leave me alone? Tell her that there is a better guy out there, just anything really just so that she will leave me alone.” I do not talk to this person anymore but do you think that what he said was crossing the line?
basil67 Posted January 18, 2019 Posted January 18, 2019 I can't comment without context. If you were a girlfriend, then it was appalling behaviour. If you were a stalker, then it's completely understandable. What was your relationship with him at the time? 1
TheFinalWord Posted January 18, 2019 Posted January 18, 2019 I do not talk to this person anymore but do you think that what he said was crossing the line? He was calling your work? That's insane. I would get a restraining order. Let the shrink figure out his personality, he's nuts if he's calling your work telling random people about your personal life.
todreaminblue Posted January 18, 2019 Posted January 18, 2019 (edited) it was just wrong of him to call your work.....even if he felt harassed by you....there are ways to deal with harassment and calling your work served no purpose or reason...please dont think i feel you were harassing him i dont know the situation fully to clarify... i wrote...... even if he felt harrassed..... i feel you should just move on...his poor form doesnt has to be a refection on you or yours...jut move on and find your own slice of happiness...without thinking anymore about him.....he isnt worth your worry or concern..walk away with a clear conscience...the guy seems to have a few issues whatever his personality is..best wishes...deb Edited January 18, 2019 by todreaminblue
Curiousroxy86 Posted January 18, 2019 Posted January 18, 2019 There is a guy that I no longer communicate with for good reasons but when we were still talking he would say things like and I quote “I’m gonna have to hurry up and get off the phone with you because if my friends find out I’m talking to you they will make fun of me and laugh.” Yes he would say things like that about me. Also he contacted my job and told my supervisor about our private personal life. He said and I quote, “will you tell her to leave me alone? Tell her that there is a better guy out there, just anything really just so that she will leave me alone.” I do not talk to this person anymore but do you think that what he said was crossing the line? Yea Leave him alone. If you really wasn't stalking him and he was encouraging the communication but went behind your back and made you out to be like your stalking him then that sounds like narcissistic behavior. The right decision is to not communicate with him it would have only gotten worse.
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