Misery Posted September 16, 2005 Posted September 16, 2005 I'll try to make it short. I believe this girl over heard me telling someone that I like tennis. So now most of the time when we come in contact she brings up tennis. She'll ask if I watched the US Open, or how she bought some tennis item, etc. Is she just being friendly and making conversation or interested? - Also, today was my last chance to see her, and I was going ask her to play tennis, turns out I didn’t see her, and today was my last day as the parts driver (I work for BMW, I got promoted). She was looking for a Ball Hopper, and I said I had an extra one I could give her, she said she would love to have it. So I was thinking of sending the Ball Hopper with the new parts driver to give to her, with just a quit note saying "hey call me if you ever want to play tennis" or something along those lines. Would that freak her out at all? Thanks
RainyDayWoman Posted September 16, 2005 Posted September 16, 2005 I'll try to make it short. I believe this girl over heard me telling someone that I like tennis. So now most of the time when we come in contact she brings up tennis. She'll ask if I watched the US Open, or how she bought some tennis item, etc. Is she just being friendly and making conversation or interested? - Also, today was my last chance to see her, and I was going ask her to play tennis, turns out I didn’t see her, and today was my last day as the parts driver (I work for BMW, I got promoted). She was looking for a Ball Hopper, and I said I had an extra one I could give her, she said she would love to have it. So I was thinking of sending the Ball Hopper with the new parts driver to give to her, with just a quit note saying "hey call me if you ever want to play tennis" or something along those lines. Would that freak her out at all? Thanks i don't know if i would say she was definitely interested in you like that just yet, because she only seems to mention the tennis. but right now, that's what you have in common, so she may very well be trying to establish something with it. if she didn't have any interest in you at all, she wouldn't bother bringing up a common ground between the two of you so often. i'm also a girl, and if i were doing what she was doing, it would be because i was in fact interested and was trying to make it a little clear to you without giving myself away too much, for fear of rejection. but that's me, i can't speak for her, obviously. i think it seems worth asking her to play sometime, or adding a little note to what you're giving her, like you said. if you're worried about looking silly in case she refuses or lets you know she's not into you like that, you can always say "hey, she always brought up tennis, and i play too, so what?" good luck. let us know how it goes! :)
elijahBailey Posted September 17, 2005 Posted September 17, 2005 why don't you give her a call or pop over her place and ask her in person? That way, if things don't turn out the way you expect it to, you at least saved a ball hopper And yeah, it's a 50/50 thing on whether she's interested.
Author Misery Posted September 17, 2005 Author Posted September 17, 2005 why don't you give her a call or pop over her place and ask her in person? That way, if things don't turn out the way you expect it to, you at least saved a ball hopper And yeah, it's a 50/50 thing on whether she's interested. I dunno, just would seem like an awkward situation if I we're to show up at her work and or call her. I already asked her if she would like the hopper (since I don’t ever use it) and she said she'd love to have it. Just seems the least awkward way of doing it. I dunno lol
RainyDayWoman Posted September 17, 2005 Posted September 17, 2005 I dunno, just would seem like an awkward situation if I we're to show up at her work and or call her. I already asked her if she would like the hopper (since I don’t ever use it) and she said she'd love to have it. Just seems the least awkward way of doing it. I dunno lol no, absolutely don't just show up. women do not like that. go with your original idea, if you really want to know what she's all about.
elijahBailey Posted September 17, 2005 Posted September 17, 2005 yeah, showing up at her place is probably a bad idea. maybe a call would be better. you got nothing to lose, really.... well maybe just the ball hopper if you go with your original plan
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