polski Posted September 16, 2005 Posted September 16, 2005 I've been browsing these forums for the last week or so because since January I've had a crush on this girl I've known my whole life. Her family had been friends with my family and her and I have always been in a lot of classes together since elementary school. Now we're both seniors in high school, we're both 17 and over the summer I really started to like her. We've hung out 3 or 4 times over the summer and I sit beside her at lunch everday so there's plenty of time for the two of us to talk but I'm a bit of a shy guy. Our relationship get's really complicated when you add in the fact that at the beginning of last year school year she was in a relationship with one of my best friends. Even though this guy is my friend he's never really been the kind who sticks with 1 girl, and when he hooks up with a girl he's usually using them to get oral sex or have intercourse--she gave him both and I'm wondering is it even worth talking to her with that fact in mind because even though all my friends said it was a bad idea I really like her. I'm having a lot of trouble trying to figure out whether she likes me or not too--on the first day of school she came up to me and gave me one of the biggest hugs I've ever gotten but earlier on this week she came to me and asked me some questions about another guy (the friend mentioned earlier) and that made me think that maybe she still liked him (because I heard that when a girl talks to you about other guys it means she doesn't like you somewhere). My friend talked to me this morning and he told me straight up that he used her and that she doesn't understand that... I want to tell her that she was being used but I don't want to hurt her. She's really confusing because when we're alone and I look into her eyes sometimes there's silence for like 5 seconds while we're just both staring at each other, but I've never seen any other signs (twirling hair etc.) like I've seen from previous girlfriends but when I'm looking in her eyes I can feel myself melting on the inside, I start blurting out words in the wrong order and she usually just smiles and starts to giggle.
jaredb Posted September 17, 2005 Posted September 17, 2005 awww, i miss that feeling. when u cant get someone out of your head. i used to be just like u. in fact, i was almost in that exact same predicament. the only difference was i told the girl b4 she got hurt. i still never told her how i felt though. this was eight grade and now im a sophmore in college. i regret not telling her how i feel. if you dont tell her, you might not get a chance. she might fall in love with the wrong guy. make the move. IM TELLING U!
Author polski Posted September 17, 2005 Author Posted September 17, 2005 My understanding is that it's only ok to date a friend's ex if given permission and I just talked to my friend and he gave me permission. me: man i got a problem me: i got a thing 4 ----- man him: good thats not a problem him: u keep her him: tell her come suck my dick 2morrow me: yo don't say that about her him: 4 the last time me: i dont even know y yo him: u want her 2 suck ur dick 2 thas why me: no i think it's more than that man The worst part is that this girl is real smart except even though she has a lot of book knowledge but she doesn't have a lot of common sense so it was real easy for my friend to manipulate her and even though I didn't like seeing it be done I couldn't stop either of them.
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