social media and jealousy

[Rayce]

I have seen lots posting here about social media and jealousy. I'm guilty of this and because social media is here to stay so I really need to figure out healthy ways to deal with it. I am self help type person.

 

In my situation this was the first time that I had never felt jealousy like this over social media. That is only because this is the first time that I have actually had a romantic relationship with someone where social media was our primary form of communication. My ex likes beautiful women and I noticed that he was liking this picture or that picture but it was of his friends and family so I didn't feel any pangs of jealousy. Late last summer I started noticing he would comment that this woman or that woman was "Beautiful". Then I started feeling jealous. I figured it was something that needed to work on so I started blocking all the women he was going around commenting on and liking. lol... That worked for a couple of months until I saw a posting that made my head explode. The holidays are over now and I am feeling so much better about myself. I am going to have step up my game. That means working harder at the online dating stuff as well as meeting others the old fashion way. I am going to try tinder this round. I also want to learn how to post better selfies so I am getting dates. Anyone know of any good selfie tutorials?

 

The jealousy thing... yes I will be working that too!

Edited January 14, 2019 by Rayce

[chillii]

Don't do social media and neither does my woman. l dunno why people put themselves through that garbage.

 

 

Selfies, way back when l was on a date site, all l did was set my phone camera on a shelf, set the timer at 10 secs and went and stood for a pic.

Did that about 10 times , got a few good pics and put them in.

[Fair]

Social media and cell phones are relationship poison.

Edited January 14, 2019 by Fair