Incanada Posted January 13, 2019 Posted January 13, 2019 I think this barista digs me. But there’s always lineups and you can’t really get into any real kind of talking with a girl. I like her but does she like me? 1st time in for coffee – struck up chat about coffee and she recommends something. We talk about art cuz that’s what I do. I sit and she comes over for more pics about art and chatting. On Instagram she ends up ‘liking’ some posts from where I work but only ones with me in them (I think I’m trying to read too much there). 2nd time in for coffee 2 weeks later – she remembers her recommendation to me. I sit and she does the ‘walks around with samples’ thing but stops at me last so she can put it down. We chat holidays. I’m going away and she’s says that I’ll ‘be missed’. 3rd time in for coffee 2 weeks later after holidays – asks about my trip. Brief chat about holidays and she says she was worried she’d be alone without family. I stand and wait for my order and she comes around to show me her art on her phone. I ask when I can see it in person and she says I should remind her to bring it in for me. It’s been about 2 more weeks now and I’ve not frequented where she works. It feels like I’m avoiding it until I’m more certain. Thoughts??
alphamale Posted January 13, 2019 Posted January 13, 2019 Thoughts?? don't hit on women who work for tips or who are paid to be nice to you 1
Geraltt Posted January 13, 2019 Posted January 13, 2019 don't hit on women who work for tips or who are paid to be nice to you +1 Quoted for truth
Lotsgoingon Posted January 14, 2019 Posted January 14, 2019 She's being charming and friendly ... She's using her good personality with customers ... if she's interested in you, let her ask you out. Note: you can be a special customer and you could be her absolute favorite customer! And that still does NOT mean she is interested in meeting you outside of work. 1
preraph Posted January 14, 2019 Posted January 14, 2019 I don't know. She had an opening to see you not at work and said she'd bring it in. I think this is an art interest. But by all means remind her you want to see her work and keep being chatty and see if anything more develops. Sounds like she may be unattached at least. 1
rightondude Posted January 14, 2019 Posted January 14, 2019 (edited) I stand and wait for my order and she comes around to show me her art on her phone. I ask when I can see it in person and she says I should remind her to bring it in for me. (AIR HORN) that's your answer right there brother. Sorry. That was a quality line from you though, if you had any chance it would have worked. keep your head up. Edited January 14, 2019 by a LoveShack.org Moderator Fix quote 2
smackie9 Posted January 14, 2019 Posted January 14, 2019 Ask her if she would like to check out some fringe art exhibit with you.....ask her when she gets off work. 2
d0nnivain Posted January 14, 2019 Posted January 14, 2019 You are already IG friends. You have the ability to communicate when she's not at work. Find some art thing & ask her to go with you. It's not that hard.
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