unsafe Posted September 16, 2005 Posted September 16, 2005 So I found out yesterday that the guy I was dating for four months is back with his ex girlfriend. I mean I have heard these stories but this has never happened to me. I believe he was dating her and I at the same time. We just broke up. We dated for about a month and a half and then he started to shut me out and flake on me and not call me and not come around as much. I was just so confused? So I finally had to end it. He imes me yesterday to tell me he is back with her. Why I don't know? But now that I think about it I remember her coming back into his life after a month and half of he and I dating and she told him that her engagment she had to another man fell through. So I guess now she is coming back to him. And he took her back. And he never gave us a chance. And I feel like I was just blind sided by a bus because I really liked him and he and I were friends for a couple years before we ever decided to date. He and her have been broken up for 2 years. And now she comes back. I mean its his loss but still...This isn't an easy thing for me. I had a relationship for 2 months really that was based on lies because he going around behind my back. And I asked him because of his behavior if he was dating anyone else..and he would always tell me no I am not dating anyone else you are it. Stop thinking like that! He use to talk about moving in with me. God I feel like a fool. Why do people feel they can just treat people like this and lay it out and walk away to what they believe is a happy life? Life goes on and I will move on. But people are so messed up sometimes. I mean if he didn't want me he should have let me go months ago.
Art_Critic Posted September 16, 2005 Posted September 16, 2005 What an As* he is .. Here's a *Hug* I'm sorry that you are hurting.. It is better to find out that he is a skunk now rather than later.. His ex hasn't found out yet
Author unsafe Posted September 16, 2005 Author Posted September 16, 2005 thank you..I know I mean I am glad I realized it now. I just can't believe he had so little respect for me. To keep me hanging on. When he should have just let me go if he was really still stuck on her after 2 years later. And she went and almost married another man because he woudlnt' marry her. So I think they deserve each other. thanks for the hug is was needed!
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