Daan2k2 Posted January 13, 2019 Posted January 13, 2019 I went on a trip to school, and here I met a really pretty and smart girl. Now she's pretty shy, but I don't mind because I am not great with the other sex either. We really hit it off, just not kissing. After the trip, I started acting pretty desperate and needy. I texted her a lot. After a week or 2 she didn't respond much, so I stopped to in order not to look desperate. It hurt me a lot but I worked hard to move on. I haven't spoken to her in 2 months, and only see her at school. I don't really need her anymore, and I'm not hurt anymore, so can I try to make her interested again (being way less desperate ofc)? She has made eye contact a few times, and I'm a pretty popular guy so I guess I wouldn't be a bad pick. Should I try again to get closure or an actual relationship? If so, do you guys have any tips?
d0nnivain Posted January 13, 2019 Posted January 13, 2019 Try being friendly at school. Just friendly in person. Say hi to her in the hall. If she responds warmly to that, the next time there is a school event like a basketball game text her to say you are going & that you hope to see her there. In short start small.
Incanada Posted January 13, 2019 Posted January 13, 2019 If it were me I’d be done and would just leave it be.
Simple Logic Posted January 13, 2019 Posted January 13, 2019 If she was interested you would not have gone two months without speaking. Move on.
Juha Posted January 13, 2019 Posted January 13, 2019 Do not waste your time on people who do not spend any effort on you. You messaged her and she was so interested in knowing you and having you be a part of her life she never responded... So why would you spend another minute on someone like this??? Spend your valuable time and effort on people who show they want you in their life. You know what to do from here I hope I wish you the best 1
manfrombelow2 Posted January 13, 2019 Posted January 13, 2019 ou don't waste time wanting someone who doesn't want you back. And you just cannot "talk" or "convince" anybody into liking you. Emotions don't work that way. When you've made mistakes to erase a woman's interest in you, the only correct solution is to stop contacting her (aka leave her alone as she wishes), walk away, never look back and start dating other women instead of getting stuck with this particular one. The formula is always plain and simple, it's just that sometimes we just don't allow ourselves to learn it.
rightondude Posted January 14, 2019 Posted January 14, 2019 get closure? On what? She closed things by not responding to your texts. Move on.
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