My boyfriend doesn't want to go out on a DATE

[ChocolateShake]

I agree. "Fortunately", it's just a debt ...

[olivetree]

Okay we talked honestly and it's all good. the boy just got into a small debt, he had no money and he would not tell me about it.

 

I'm glad you feel better, but I'm wondering why you two didn't do free things like visit each other's homes?

It sounded like you only saw each other twice a week at school.

[Curiousroxy86]

Hello. I'm in a relationship with my boyfriend for a year. I will get to the bottom of the matter. For over a month, he does not want to go out with me for either the cinema or the restaurant. Before that everything was normal, he regularly took me to some places at least once every two weeks.

somewhere for 3 months I was the initiator of meetings, but he agreed to them, but as I wrote, he has been looking for excuses for a month. We see each other twice a week at the university. What should I think about it?...

 

Ok if I was in your shoes I would consider this a boundary. I am the type that I don't have to go out all the time. I am the type that's fine going out with my bf once a month and the rest of the time we stay in. But if my bf doesn't want to be seen at all and couldn't indulge me atleast once a month that's a problem for me. So if it were me I would say "honey I enjoy spending time with you watching our shows and making love but I would like to get out the house sometimes. Can we get out the house together babe? " If he says no well y'all been together for a year so let's give him a bit of lee way shall we? then I would ask "you don't want to get out the house with me anymore or just not right now" if he says anymore I would breakup with him. That's a damn problem. If he says not right now then say "honey it's important to me that we get out the house so will you let me know a date or when you feel up to it". If he says no I would breakup with him. Wth kind of man say no to his girl asking sweetly a very reasonable request like that. He not a team player acting like that. If he says he will let you know then leave him alone for another month. Then after a month if he doesn't proactively take you out Ask him to take you out again and if he still on some I don't feel like it mess I would breakup with him.