ljwentworth32 Posted January 11, 2019 Posted January 11, 2019 (edited) I've been seeing this girl for about 2 months now. We get together once a week for dates (sometimes more thought out, other times just movie). Initially she was technically the one to ask me out but now it's become probably 70/30 in terms of me initiating plans or even to get together. She always says yes and even initiates text but I feel she wouldn't suggest to hang out if I just wait and don't initiate. Now I could keep reaching out but don't want to come across as too needy,etc.. and over-pursuing. Any thoughts on how to navigate this? Edited January 11, 2019 by ljwentworth32
d0nnivain Posted January 11, 2019 Posted January 11, 2019 Just talk to her. Tell her some of what you told us. Say something like I enjoy our time together but I have noticed you rarely suggest dates. How about you plan the next one? Phrase it so it's about you making sure that the two of you are doing things she things are fun. You don't mention money but if you feel like you are being taken for a financial ride because you are always paying you need to explore that too but gently.
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