mortensorchid Posted January 11, 2019 Posted January 11, 2019 I connected with someone where we talked through Match. We exchanged basic information about one another, hi how are you messages, etc. Then he said he is looking for a FWB situation. I said thank you for your honesty but I am looking for a relationship not that. I think it's alright but that's not what I am looking for, thank you for your honesty and best of luck in your search. Not a bad thing, but it's just a report.
Happy Lemming Posted January 11, 2019 Posted January 11, 2019 You could use him as a replacement for the guy that said you had "cankles". "Cankle" guy was an FWB, right??
FMW Posted January 11, 2019 Posted January 11, 2019 If he's only looking for a FWB situation then he should make that clear right up front. His profile should clearly state he's looking for something casual. Why waste someone's time? Sounds like you handled it with grace though, so good for you.
edgygirl Posted January 11, 2019 Posted January 11, 2019 Don't you put on your bio that you're looking for a LTR and def not a FWB? I put that very clearly so I usually don't get matches with people who are looking for a hookup. I am in fact 100% honest about what I want in my bio.
Insoc Posted January 11, 2019 Posted January 11, 2019 Don't you put on your bio that you're looking for a LTR and def not a FWB? I put that very clearly so I usually don't get matches with people who are looking for a hookup. I am in fact 100% honest about what I want in my bio. Why not put "LTR" in your profile, I have it in mine, but I'm a guy and only got a couple of hook-up requests, most if not all women i have met clearly stated they want a LTR in their profile.
Insoc Posted January 11, 2019 Posted January 11, 2019 (edited) If he's only looking for a FWB situation then he should make that clear right up front. His profile should clearly state he's looking for something casual. Why waste someone's time? Sounds like you handled it with grace though, so good for you. Cuz that's Match, you get all types on there, casual daters and time wasters, many won't say they want a hook-up but will speed into sexting 1 or 2 days after connecting. I have one woman I'm sorta talking to jumped to sexting after 2 days of meeting on Match, she also sent nudes and I didn't ask for them, but still stated she is looking for a LTR. She is addicted to Match is logged in and out all day long, works from home so she sit's in from of a PC all day long. Edited January 11, 2019 by Insoc
Author mortensorchid Posted January 11, 2019 Author Posted January 11, 2019 Yes, I suppose I could put in the fact that I am looking for an LTR rather than a FWB / hook up situation. Then again, people lie about that as well. I will do just that so I can screen out the obvious time wasters.
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