Author Sammygirl Posted January 9, 2019 Author Posted January 9, 2019 You said it’s been silent for 2 days? So he was texting you nonstop -about what?— now, nothing? Have you heard from him today? I texted him a good morning text and said to have a nice day. He responded a little while earlier saying good morning and asked how my day was going..I decided to answer when I both knew we were free, so like 6 hours later. We went back and forth for like 2 messages then he left me on read...... Idk he left once before. I think I'm just going to leave it and if he decides he wants to put more effort...sorry but it takes 1 min to check in on someone... I think I need to have this convo with him about his interest and the texting. I thought I felt good about it and talked enough but apparently not.
olivetree Posted January 9, 2019 Posted January 9, 2019 I think I need to have this convo with him about his interest and the texting. I thought I felt good about it and talked enough but apparently not. Please don't do this. Tell him YOU'RE no longer interested in dating.
AriesDude Posted January 9, 2019 Posted January 9, 2019 I think I'm just going to leave it and if he decides he wants to put more effort...sorry but it takes 1 min to check in on someone... "If he decides he wants to...." my butt. Forget about him and find the next guy. This guy only gonna hurt you and bring you back to this site many more times. He has already shown you he will pretty much disappear for days on you...doing who knows what...why havent you blocked him already?. As you said...it takes a minute, not even, just to atleast say good night and morning and maybe why he couldnt text...he hasnt shown you any of those courtesies so why try and give it to him...block him already. Mr Right is out there waiting for you while you are wasting time on this bloke.
MaleIntuition Posted January 10, 2019 Posted January 10, 2019 This is mostly your own insecurity speaking. I don’t know if this is a generation thing or something; but routine texting for the sake of... texting..? I suppose it’s easy to get a bit “high” on the constant attention? Amount - quantity - of texts is not an indicator of true interest. Period. Is he interested? Maybe? No idea. As the girls keep saying; texting doesn’t require much effort - therefore it’s easy for someone whom doesn’t care to just routinely text/snap all day long with multiple girls if he so wish. Amount of texts is not an indicator of true interest. But is his interest level even the main question at this point? Are you even interested in him? These threads are always so backwards. “I’m afraid that he doesn’t like me, therefore I better end things before he does”. I could, seriously, create a texting-dating AI (bot) which would fill the need for texting throughout the day. I would let the user specify a cutie-level which would indicate amount of emojis used. Add some random frequency of texts, throw in some standard phrases “good morning”, “how’s your day” etc and boom! Problem solved. With today’s tech this would pass the Turing test without much problem.
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