NightsEcho Posted September 16, 2005 Posted September 16, 2005 Hey LS, I know many of you don't know my story. With a girl I loved for 3 1/2 years, she cheated and dumped me. Like a fool I hung on for 7 months waiting for.....anything. I've been made to look like a fool...again. I found out everything tonight. All the dirty details. So I'm done it has hurt for to long. Before you say...hey NE just get out there...I have. I have met girls and even slept with one....but she is 2000 miles away from me. I cant do it. I'm so tired. I sent her this. ***, Well, you sent me an e-mail saying you missed talking to me....and surprise,surprise, you don't e-mail back. Well ******, I'm done. I was so emberassed tonight. I ran into your old friend *****(she goes to U of L now) and guess what.....she told me everything about you and ****. Seems I was a damn fool. I've been made a fool for way to long. I was told about everything...again. I thought I could be friends with you but you don't want that. All I wanted was to try and be civil, but I've been made to look like an idoit again. So whatever, I guess my 3 1/2 years that I loved you like no one else...and the fact that for the past 7 months I hoped you would miss me or at least say sorry for cheating on me were a waste. Good luck ******...hope you get everything you want. You can never say I didn't try. Kiss your family for me....I miss and love them, I guess I just never meant anything to YOU. NE Well all I hope you all better. I feel so low now again
greenhorn Posted September 16, 2005 Posted September 16, 2005 Hey NE, Could not contain myself on seeing your post so I am posting on LS...you know that I know your story and everything after that..No wonder I can also imagine your situation and how you are feeling.... Sometimes I just can't understand how people can be so selfish in this world to cheat others and then not even accept it..but nothing is there that can't be done. This has been happening since time imemorial and will continue to happen... I know you were feeling quite better with your new girl-friend so try to spend more time in that relationship..it is difficult to forget your past but there is no point in living with the past as well... I don't know what to write but I can't help myself wondering how people can be so SADIST.....and my own experience tells me that these selfish, self-centered and sadist people are always happy in life..there is no balance in this world.... Don't feel bad and try to gather yourself, no one can help you except your own grit so help yourself... take care
sanne Posted September 16, 2005 Posted September 16, 2005 she just isn't the right one for you, it's time to move on. keep your head up.
confused&inneed Posted September 17, 2005 Posted September 17, 2005 i know what it is like to be cheated on, i was too...it really suckes and takes time to move on. I understand some of your pain. It will take a lot to get over it. You have had time as i can see, 7 months, but maybe you need more. 3 years is a lot of time with a person, that person becomes your life, and a rutine that is hard to break. Trust me i know. take things slow, and dont rush into another relationship. good luck
Author NightsEcho Posted September 17, 2005 Author Posted September 17, 2005 Hey all, Well been a couple days. I appriciate all of your responses, and Green it's good to see you back. Your advice has always been appriciated. Well guys & girls...when I sent that e-mail off, I had been drinking just a little bit heavy. (which is good, cause it gave me the power to hit send) you know what I could be really mean to her. But in the end to hell with it, at least I can say I was the bigger person. The end of this saga is almost here. One of my very best friends and roommates are going to her house, to get my last sentimental thing she has. (this is one item that I can't just write off) I wish I could see her face when they show up, people she thought were her friends, and get it back. No more messing around, they know to go there, get it and leave. Oh man, I'm so done with the girl! I mean Cheating on me for a F$%^%& year. Thanks all for your replys, and everyone stay strong. At this point I have finally realized that there is nothing to hope for, even if she said sorry and came back....There's no way I could live with myself. NE
Author NightsEcho Posted September 17, 2005 Author Posted September 17, 2005 Dude, I agree with you. I never did cheat on her or would have gone out of my way to hurt her. The only reason I got so drunk was cause I ran into her former best friend at the bar...and she started telling me about it. So naturally I started to think about it....and what a sham the last year are relationship really was. But you know what they deserve each other. Any girl that will cheat after 3 years, and any guy who will pursue a girl with a bf, and cheat with her. Well they totally deserve each other. No more mean or nice guy. Just a "to hell with it attitude" thanks for your responses, keep them coming....and if your own story is like this please feel free to add. NE
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