Cashxo Posted January 7, 2019 Posted January 7, 2019 I’ve seen this girl at my school for about 3 years now. Going into my senior year at high school and I really like her. She is really good looking and I want to try and start a thing with her. I never really talked to her because I get really anxious taking to people I like. She is friends with a lot of my friends and my one friend wants to have me and her both over to try and get to know each other. I was going to wait until summer break to hang out with her or even talk to her, but I think it is far too long to wait. I’m confused on what I should do. My friends are going to have me and her at the same place and we are going to hang out, but i don’t know how to approach the situation. He also told me that she is kinda flirty so I don’t know how I’m going to really tell if she likes me. I find myself always talking about her to my friends and I really only care about her in this type of way. Any tips?
AriesDude Posted January 7, 2019 Posted January 7, 2019 Agreed with donnivain. Relax man....anything out of character you are gonna try and do like "act all flirty" because you heard she is flirty....yea she will see right through you...be yourself and relax and dont ask 5 million questions...after the first 10 minutes youll be able to see where you have stuff in common and stuff will flow naturally. Good luck
Art Anderson Posted January 7, 2019 Posted January 7, 2019 Agreed with donnivain. Relax man....anything out of character you are gonna try and do like "act all flirty" because you heard she is flirty....yea she will see right through you...be yourself and relax and dont ask 5 million questions...after the first 10 minutes youll be able to see where you have stuff in common and stuff will flow naturally. Good luck Exactly. Just take it easy and don't act like a lamb sent to the slaughter. You're at a party for more than being set up with one person. Too much pressure. Hey, it could work out. I tagged along to a house party and I don't think I was being set up that time but I ended up sitting next to the girl hosting it at her parent's place and she was inarguably one of the most attractive girls in school. I didn't hit on her and it was a bit too loud to chat. Up to then I never knew her directly. Within weeks the go-between friend had her on the phone because they lived just houses apart and grew up together. Then he says to me, talk to Teri for a bit and hands me the phone. She asked me bluntly, "So when are you going to ask me out?" Looking back, that call was the setup. We went out for years after that.
Author Cashxo Posted January 8, 2019 Author Posted January 8, 2019 Thank you for all the tips. This is our senior year though. She is leaving the state after this year (at least that’s what she thinks she wants to do) so is it worth me trying to make a move? I don’t want to try and then get sad when she leaves and I missed my shot... idk what I should do tbh.
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