AriesDude Posted January 6, 2019 Posted January 6, 2019 Hello people . So I went to a club this weekend....met a girl, we talked for hours, everything was going great imo at least. I must have convinced her she came there on her own somehow as she barely talked to any of her friends since we started talking. That doesnt happen very often in my world so must be a good thing. So she tells me to call her the next morning so we can go out and writes down her full name and number with lots of smileys and hearts on a posty note. Next morning I call the number and I get one of those "this number has been dead/out of service for a few years" tones. Probably my fault for not calling the number on the spot when I got it... So my question, do I try to find her again? Look her up on facebook and tell her she made a mistake or should I see at as a "she's just not interested" sign? Dont wanna be stalker-ish.... but also don't want to let a chance to see her again slip through my fingers if there was really something there.
manfrombelow2 Posted January 6, 2019 Posted January 6, 2019 Most of the time, girls who have high interest in you don't give you wrong numbers. And most of the time, girls purposely give you wrong numbers to subtly reject you. If I were you, I would just forget about her and move on. The fact that you're making this topic to ask about this tells me that you are not dating multiple women at the same time, which is an alpha thing to do.
mortensorchid Posted January 6, 2019 Posted January 6, 2019 I am 44 and know by now that it's not the best idea to give your number out to just anyone. Maybe she didn't want to have contact with you as badly as you did with her. Plus I would think in the age of smartphones that you would simply put the person's number in your phone and text each other so that you have each otber's numbers. But I digress... If you do want to find her again, go back to the same place you first met her. Talk with others and see if you can track her down. If not, just another link in the chain.
Author AriesDude Posted January 6, 2019 Author Posted January 6, 2019 yea im not a womanizer...just bothering me a little as i know most women who would wanna give you a fake number wouldnt write it down either. So yep im confused
maxi105 Posted January 6, 2019 Posted January 6, 2019 hi aries…, it might be that she didn't want to give the number after you asked for it (if you asked for it), it might be that she wasw genuine but forgot her number if she was drinking a bit. maybe try the last few numbers the other way round in case she has slipped up a bit by mistake. if not then maybe try to go to the club and see if she is there or any of her friends are there. and leave your number with them. if she's interested she'll call you. maybe next time give your number and if she's interested she can call you. I wouldn't really go down the facebook route, if she's that bothered she has a better chance to find you. maybe you put her on the spot then, so if you go looking for her you may do the same again! and that's not good if she's not sure or not interested. good luck. if its meant to be it will happen. see ya. maxi.
Author AriesDude Posted January 6, 2019 Author Posted January 6, 2019 Yea thanks for the replies guys. Best plan I guess would be to wait for her to approach me and ask why I didnt call if it really was a mistake if I see her again. She didnt drink at all so can only think that it was wrote down incorrectly on purpose. Moving on then . Happy New Years to all of ya
soyou Posted January 6, 2019 Posted January 6, 2019 I’m a woman and I can assure you that I have given my wrong numbers a couple of times! Just 1-2 digits are wrong or not correct! Because I was busy talking while writing it down! This happened to some of mt GFs too! If she didn’t want to give you her phone number, she would give you s fake name too! In this case not, so I think she just wrote the wrong number like me!
Author AriesDude Posted January 7, 2019 Author Posted January 7, 2019 So, went back to the bar, was lucky enough to find her sister and I convinced her to help me make sure I have the right number and turns out she did right it down completely incorrectly. So back to the drawing board, still glad I went back to find out for myself. Thanks for the advice and replies guys. Hope you all have better luck with your love lives this coming year. 1
PegNosePete Posted January 7, 2019 Posted January 7, 2019 When you get a number, always read it back, but make a deliberate mistake such as getting a digit wrong or getting 2 last digits the wrong way round. If they correct you, you can be fairly sure it's a genuine number. If they happily let you make the mistake without correcting you, they are faking you, just don't waste any more time and move on. It's a bit more difficult when they write it for you - but I'm sure there's a way to adapt the trick for that too. 1
sabaton Posted January 7, 2019 Posted January 7, 2019 Hello people . So I went to a club this weekend....met a girl, we talked for hours, everything was going great imo at least. I must have convinced her she came there on her own somehow as she barely talked to any of her friends since we started talking. That doesnt happen very often in my world so must be a good thing. So she tells me to call her the next morning so we can go out and writes down her full name and number with lots of smileys and hearts on a posty note. Next morning I call the number and I get one of those "this number has been dead/out of service for a few years" tones. Probably my fault for not calling the number on the spot when I got it... So my question, do I try to find her again? Look her up on facebook and tell her she made a mistake or should I see at as a "she's just not interested" sign? Dont wanna be stalker-ish.... but also don't want to let a chance to see her again slip through my fingers if there was really something there. hahaha, she didn't give you the wrong number. She gave you a fake number because she wasn't interested in you, but because she wasn't interested in getting her nose broken because lots of guys don't handle rejection well, and most women are ever reluctant to reject a man outright(and for good reason due to how violent many men are), they reject the men softly, either by saying they have a boyfriend, or by giving a fake number. Bro, when a woman wants you: she'll give you her cellphone number, her landline phone number, her facebook profile so you can add her, her instagram, her snapchat, and her twitter. Just chuckle and don't lose sleep over it. There's loads of cute girls in nightclubs. Just go out and meet more women.
Author AriesDude Posted January 7, 2019 Author Posted January 7, 2019 yeah sabaton i know what you mean...especially in clubs while dudes have liquor in them, so I can and do fully understand why she would do it that way. Would have preferred the "i have a boyfriend" line instead though lol. Anyways...just happy i know now...not gonna lose sleep. Will remember that thanks PegNosePete
smackie9 Posted January 7, 2019 Posted January 7, 2019 Giving the wrong number is the oldest trick in the book. I used to get phone calls from those hopeful dudes. I had to break the news to them that there is no Cheryl/Tania/Candi, etc here, she gave you a bunk number. lol
Andy_K Posted January 7, 2019 Posted January 7, 2019 Normally I'd assume she just deliberately gave you the wrong number... but if the spent THAT much time talking to you, and also put down her full name and loads of hearts/smileys, it's worth giving the benefit of the doubt. Friend request her on facebook or something, if she accepted then message, if she doesn't then move on. Don't message first as often people can't see messages from non-friends. 1
PRW Posted January 7, 2019 Posted January 7, 2019 Normally I'd assume she just deliberately gave you the wrong number... but if the spent THAT much time talking to you, and also put down her full name and loads of hearts/smileys, it's worth giving the benefit of the doubt. Friend request her on facebook or something, if she accepted then message, if she doesn't then move on. Don't message first as often people can't see messages from non-friends. Yea, I agree. Maybe she did it on purpose, but if she seemed to invest as much conversation and time on you while she was there it could have been an accident. So I'd give her a little benefit of a doubt. They usually give a wrong number on purpose when it is someone trying to do a quick pickup PUA style when they have nothing invested,...but she seemed invested in you somewhat. If there is a chance of bumping into her again at the same place then see if that happens and pay close attention to her reaction when she sees you. She'll probably seem "uneasy" either way,...you didn't call and she doesn't know she gave the wrong number,...or she has to face you after knowing she gave the wrong number on purpose.
alphamale Posted January 7, 2019 Posted January 7, 2019 if a girl is really into seeing you again she will make sure her phone number is correct 1
Author AriesDude Posted January 7, 2019 Author Posted January 7, 2019 @Andy_K @PRW thanks for understanding guys. I'm not braindead...it's pretty obvious to see when someone isnt interested in you nowadays so all the laughing and talking and smileys definitely didnt trigger any doubts. Meh, I did my stalker-ish part already...if she wants to talk she can track me down
lurker74 Posted January 7, 2019 Posted January 7, 2019 Just to add to this, there's a good chance she's seeing someone but that she had a good time talking to you. That should be considered a partial win. She enjoyed talking to you enough to continue it, even if it wasn't enough to want to go out with you.
losangelena Posted January 7, 2019 Posted January 7, 2019 She sounds like she trolled you pretty hard. Gives you her number on a note with a bunch of hearts and smileys after chatting all night, and then it’s a fake number? That’s hilarious. 1
Geraltt Posted January 7, 2019 Posted January 7, 2019 (edited) There are companies that now actually provide fake phone numbers for exactly this purpose. I kid thee not. 10 Prank Phone Numbers to Hand a Bad Date at the End of the Night Edited January 7, 2019 by Geraltt fixed link
Art Anderson Posted January 7, 2019 Posted January 7, 2019 Giving the wrong number is the oldest trick in the book. I used to get phone calls from those hopeful dudes. I had to break the news to them that there is no Cheryl/Tania/Candi, etc here, she gave you a bunk number. lol When I was in college, I got a phone call from a girl who wouldn't take "no" for an answer. She insisted that I was Jim and why don't I remember her from the fair? I couldn't get her off the phone and then I asked her to describe me and damn, I immediately connected it to a friend of mine named Jim. He was a total player. Not much respect even for his girlfriends. Maybe he thought it would be funny to give a girl the number of one of his friends. Generally in life he became an even worse jerk from there on. There is a comedian who said "I now believe it's not just a joke, blondes really are dumb. Everyone that's given me their phone number wrote it down wrong." 1
smackie9 Posted January 7, 2019 Posted January 7, 2019 Sounds like an episode of Three's Company where Larry used Jack's name
edgygirl Posted January 7, 2019 Posted January 7, 2019 That's why next time instead of writing, you ask her to type it on your phone, and call her at the same time to see if her phone is ringing. Bingo. Now you have her number for sure, and she also has yours.
alphamale Posted January 7, 2019 Posted January 7, 2019 Sounds like an episode of Three's Company where Larry used Jack's name baahaha, jiggle TV
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