Goldenheart Posted January 6, 2019 Posted January 6, 2019 Hi I’m going to try to make this as short as possible. My ex of 5 years broke up with me a few months ago because I didn’t engage with her child. I have spent the last few months trying to get her back. At certain points it seemed like it would happen but I kept making mistakes that pushed her away further. In the midst of trying to get her back I found out that she has been seeing a guy that she was talking to before we broke up. I found out that she is now pregnant and soon will have an abortion. She tells me that we are never getting back together but can be friends. I know the story seems crazy but I’m having a tough time deciding if I should just let it go. I know I have done wrong and at this point I feel she has done wrong too. Thanks for your replies
d0nnivain Posted January 6, 2019 Posted January 6, 2019 Let it go. You still haven't mentioned the child which was her huge issue. She also seemed to have been involved with this other guy before you two were completely disconnected. 1
MetallicHue Posted January 6, 2019 Posted January 6, 2019 I would definitely let it go. She said she’s not getting back with you. There’s plenty of other people out there. I know it hurts to be without someone you’ve been with for five years but I think it’s for the best.
Author Goldenheart Posted January 6, 2019 Author Posted January 6, 2019 Thanks. I want to get involved with the child but she kept telling me not to. I know she was talking to this guy before we broke up but she knew that I was seeing other girls too.
ExpatInItaly Posted January 6, 2019 Posted January 6, 2019 Thanks. I want to get involved with the child but she kept telling me not to. I know she was talking to this guy before we broke up but she knew that I was seeing other girls too. What the heck were you both doing if you were still together but seeing other people?
MIAho Posted January 7, 2019 Posted January 7, 2019 Let it go, there are better options out there. You just don't realize it yet.
loversquarrel Posted January 7, 2019 Posted January 7, 2019 Thanks. I want to get involved with the child but she kept telling me not to. I know she was talking to this guy before we broke up but she knew that I was seeing other girls too. Well now we have the truth. It really is a shame she won't take you back, you deserve each other. Seriously stop wasting yours and her time.
manfrombelow2 Posted January 7, 2019 Posted January 7, 2019 If there's one thing for sure about women, that they would always choose their children over men for most of the cases. It's in their instinct. It's their nature to stick to their children and protect them. In OP's case, I assume he didn't get along well with the offspring of his woman, that and some other mistakes during the process that cause her to gradually reject him (without him noticing of course), and finally dump him for good. Anyhow, what matters right now is that OP needs to immediately stop all contacts, under any form, with her, move on, walk away and never look back. I know this sounds much easier than done, but that is your only option for now. You cannot try and pursuade or "talk" a woman into liking you or going back with you again. Logic doesn't mean anything when it comes to the emotions of women. Just apply No Contact immediately. That's what you must do. Now.
Marc878 Posted January 7, 2019 Posted January 7, 2019 She had no problem letting you go did she? Why in the world would you want to waste your time and life hanging around that?
Fekenaws Posted January 7, 2019 Posted January 7, 2019 Let go and go No Contact. Chasing an ex is the worst possible thing you can do, they will resent you for being weak and it incinerates any positive memory they had of you.
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