Ex called me same night she ended things. What does this mean?

[evernow1]

Girl and i were moving towards exclusivity. But never got there, as I was calling her out for hanging out with another guy - however she refused there was anything sexual (BS).

 

Anyway, I go on a road trip with the boys over the holidays right after Christmas and we exchange texts irregularly, all the while I see she’s at this guys house on snapmaps.

 

New Years comes and she hits me with a simple ‘im interested in someone else, we shouldn’t see each other when you get back.’ I just say ‘okay’ and that’s that.

 

She later snaps me New Year’s Eve (same night), I don’t respond. Sends another saying ‘you left me on read’ and I don’t respond. She then snaps me saying she’s deleting me because looking at my pictures makes her sad. Okay, and don’t respond. Then at 3am she calls me while I’m 20 hours away from home on vacation. I didn’t know it was her since I deleted her number.

 

I picked up and she asked me what I was doing, and when I was back. I gave her straightforward answers but I was kind of distant and likely annoyed in my voice. Then she hung up. I then saw in the morning she posted a picture of them that morning sleeping in the same bed... likely meaning they had sex and she called me right after.

 

What does this mean?? Regrets?

[Purepony]

It probably means she’s confused but who cares? She’s obviously being disrespectful and immature so why eve. Deal or associate yourself with that

[elaine567]

I think NYE she decided she better tell you and she ends it, but she was slightly worried probably about your reaction. She needed to hear that you were OK, once she heard you were OK, she more or less hung up.

She probably was worried that you may have done something stupid ie killed yourself... hence the 3am call.

[nolanola]

She wants to know you're still on her hook. Wants to be with the new guy and have you as a back up plan as well.

 

Lots of exes do this and it's extremely annoying. And immature. Hopefully you can see it for what it is and ignore her. If she wants to date this new guy, then she should do that and leave you alone.