Insoc Posted January 4, 2019 Posted January 4, 2019 (edited) So I met this Women, she lives around 900 miles from me, she seems legit, but I'm not 100% sure. We talked on the phone a few times but mainly text (which I hate). We have been talking off and on for a week or so, not the first long distance thing I got into so I'm kinda leery. Anyways, she is evasive on details but I'm sure I figured out she is real and know who she is by piecing together some things she said, I found her FB page (She told me) but it's quite private, did see her family discussed is legit based on location and their FB pages as well. Did a background check, age, location and family all checks out along with that I figured out her real last name from this info. So with the questions that remain, she told me she is very private, but I'm also aware people steal other people's identities, "Catfish" could be a friend posing as her who got access to her photos for all I know? I'd never know, she say's she lives by herself but who knows maybe a jealous friend who lives with her is posing as her too? I'm not 100% sure. So I might be meeting her soon and she talks about "sex" a lot, I'm concerned with somethings I read, say Horror stories of men meeting up with a woman they thought was 100% legit but find out they were a Call Girl or Prostitute, I mean I know there are Women out there that just went Sex and not a relationship, she doesn't say that but she has a few times made the comment, probably because she hasn't been a in a relationship for a long time. I think if I do meet her in person in a public place and she matches the description and voice on the phone, how I proceed is my own choice, but does anyone have any similar horror stories, where well it happened then afterwards money was asked for? I don't want to be that guy lol, nor will I just jump into it, I just want to verify she is real first. Edited January 4, 2019 by Insoc
Garcon1986 Posted January 8, 2019 Posted January 8, 2019 start with some videochats and judge how real she is. Easy and cheap. Then arrange a meeting in a public place.
Highndry Posted January 9, 2019 Posted January 9, 2019 900 miles? Surely you could find a woman closer than that, right? That's more than a day's drive. I'd personally look elsewhere before I'd ever get involved in that. Long distance relationships suck.
Author Insoc Posted January 23, 2019 Author Posted January 23, 2019 Agree on the long distance thing, 2 days into meeting her she jumped in sexting already. She seems authentic, not a Catfish, but some people are real good playing pretend. I don't meet too many woman who are super attractive that come on to men so strong, it's usually you have to chase them. Also jumping into sexting so soon seems, well a big red flag, I told her I'm not interested in a hook-up.
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