Sadyyy Posted January 4, 2019 Posted January 4, 2019 Okay so... I don’t know what happened last week but I ended up texting my xbf after almost two weeks of NC. I know I shouldn’t of had but it got the best of me. I’ve always had a gut feeling that the break up wasn’t entirely what he wanted because he kept giving me mixed signals. Nothing about the break up was clear and he just ended up saying that we both need to work on ourselves. So after two weeks of NC, I texted him asking if we could wait for each other. He answered saying that he didn’t want to get ahead of himself. That he wanted to move on and to be alone. He also said that he didn’t know what would come for us in the future, but that he wasn’t thinking about it at the moment. I told him that I understood and he thanked me afterwards. Its been a week since we last texted and I am definitely staying in NC for a long time. I feel like this was really easy for him..and I don’t really know what to do
ExpatInItaly Posted January 4, 2019 Posted January 4, 2019 All you can really do is accept that you two have met the end of your story together, and it's time to work on healing. Break-ups are rarely ever "easy" for anyone, but the one who ends it generally is much more prepared emotionally for the separation. Your ex anticipated this and wanted it to be over, to naturally, it seems like he is less distressed. It hurts, but it's par for the course when the break-up wasn't mutual. You will recover, and with ample time and space away from him completely, that recovery will likely happen more quickly.
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