findmyway7 Posted January 4, 2019 Posted January 4, 2019 Just looking for opinions here I was dating this guy for 5 months, it was supposed to be casual but obviously feelings came up and it was mutual. Flash forward to the end of the 5 months and I found out that he had hooked up with the girl he used to date before me. I confronted him and he told me the truth. He told me how he hooked up with the girl he dated before me and that he went on two other dates during the past month. I had suspected that earlier in the month and confronted him in which he lied. I said I felt betrayed, and he said we were clearly on different pages. I said "We weren't though, I'm hurt because you had lied to me" Anyways he said he wanted to cool of and be friends while he tries to figure things out with the girl. AKA BACKBURNER me. I said no I don't allow liars in my life. Now 3 months later, things blew up with him and that girl and he views all my instagram stories even though he doesn't follow me and Im just thinking I miss him and wondering if he will ever contact me, and if he isn't is it because he's scared because I shut that door in his face or is it because he just doesn't want to. Any nice helpful opinions would be greatly appreciated
Happy Lemming Posted January 4, 2019 Posted January 4, 2019 I said no I don't allow liars in my life. I miss him and wondering if he will ever contact me... So what is it, do you want to re-date this guy or you don't allow liars in your life?? If you want to re-start something, contact him. I'd also set the parameters of what your expectations are. Casual or exclusive, let him know your choice.
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