AgainstAllOdds1 Posted January 2, 2019 Posted January 2, 2019 Went out with a nice girl a few weeks ago, had a good time and kissed at the end of the date. Because of our schedules and the holidays, we haven't seen each other since. We kept in contact and have a date scheduled for this week. Where do we pick things off? If date 1 ended in a kiss, does a second date weeks later begin the same way?
Logo Posted January 2, 2019 Posted January 2, 2019 You pick up where you left off. You have already kissed, so kiss the same when you meet again. Any change that you make that can be considered as a downgrade in the connection between you two will be interpreted by her as you pulling away and that would have a negative effect.
Lotsgoingon Posted January 2, 2019 Posted January 2, 2019 Relax and show up ... no rules about this ... If you want to bring back the energy from the first date, just say you're glad to see her when you greet. I don't think you have to force things or exactly start where you left off .. I myself would not go out of my way to kiss her at the next day. That's trying to hard ... If the kiss is there, and she's leaning into it, seems to be expecting it, and I WANT to kiss upon greeting, then fine. Whether you kiss or not at the first greeting isn't going to make any difference in the relationship. Just show up and have a good time and see where things go.
d0nnivain Posted January 2, 2019 Posted January 2, 2019 It would be perfectly fine for you to kiss her hello. Be a gentleman & go for the cheek 1st. Later as the date progresses you can share some real kisses. 1
manfrombelow2 Posted January 6, 2019 Posted January 6, 2019 I'd say you did a good job by successfully kissing her right on the 1st date. I wouldn't be worried too much if I were you. For the 2nd date, just show up with the vibe and charisma that you brought to her on the 1st date, create and maintain a fun-filled, positive, relaxing and comfortable atmosphere during the date, the rest will take care of itself.
Insoc Posted January 6, 2019 Posted January 6, 2019 You can read up on this stuff till your head is spinning, I just started to let it go naturally, I don't like to wait too long so I keep in contact, sometimes it may take a lot of communication to get a 2nd date, but that often means the other person is not into you or really looking at you as a priority. So if you are into them so much, you can drive it but there is not guarantees. I have been on several dates the past few months, I kissed all but a couple on the lips the at the end of the evening, a few I didn't because they were not my type, one I kissed there was no passion or interest, so another red flag. I recently did a 2nd date with her and it sealed my fate with her. You have to stay interested, if the other person is distant it can mean they are waiting for you to initiate or not interested, as a guy, many women expect me to drive but I have had many calling and texting me all the time, which I sorta like. Times have changed I guess? Depends on the person.
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