clazarus08 Posted January 2, 2019 Posted January 2, 2019 So I've been talking to this girl for almost 3 weeks. We have texted each other every day since. We talk on the phone for hours but ive only hungout with her once. She always responds to my messages and says that she likes me because I make her laugh (and she always laughs at my dumb jokes over the phone) Our conversations rarely get stale and I feel like I could talk to her for hours and hours. The only problem is, every time I ask her to hangout, something comes up.. Ive asked her maybe 3 or 4 times. She always says something like, well this happened but maybe later this week. Or something like that. Now I get that everyone gets busy and I haven't assumed that shes blowing me off yet but part of me is wondering if maybe shes not interested and just being nice. Some input would be greatly appreciated!
I'veseenbetterlol Posted January 2, 2019 Posted January 2, 2019 A woman who likes you is going to see you more then one time in 3 weeks. She is just using you as entertainment when she is bored. She isn't interested.
Author clazarus08 Posted January 2, 2019 Author Posted January 2, 2019 What should my next step be? Ive tried not texting back but she just texts me anyway.
Gretchen12 Posted January 2, 2019 Posted January 2, 2019 Tell her that you like her a lot but you need to see more of her for this to move forward. And if she cannot, for whatever reason, then it's best to keep texting to a minimum or actually not at all, because you are not looking for a text-pal. 2
L0nely Posted January 2, 2019 Posted January 2, 2019 still have conversations with her whenever it's convenient for you. meanwhile, find some other girls to talk to as well. i've been that girl before; i'll keep talking to guys (multiple guys) and choose and pick which ones i like best. she may be doing the same to you.
chillii Posted January 2, 2019 Posted January 2, 2019 Sorry but l'd wanna hear a lot better than l made her laugh l;d have no interest in just being the entertainment. Don't think it's looking good sorry.
Author clazarus08 Posted January 2, 2019 Author Posted January 2, 2019 Thank you for the replies. Much appreciated!
Lotsgoingon Posted January 2, 2019 Posted January 2, 2019 She likes you and has so much fun talking to you, but yeah, she's not really into you ... You can confidently talk to her about this--look, I enjoy our conversations. It's really chatting with you. I'm glad I make you laugh. But I really want to hang out some. She doesn't respond, I'd start talking less, to stop yourself for falling hard for her only to run up against that wall of disappointment. 1
Malin889 Posted January 2, 2019 Posted January 2, 2019 You should definitely shift back on contacting her. Don’t contact for a couple days and see if she reaches out. Then you’ll know if she’s interested.
ChatroomHero Posted January 2, 2019 Posted January 2, 2019 If you really want to know, tell her you have tickets to a concert or an expiring gift card for a free dinner and a movie or something and ask her to go. She'll decline or make an excuse. Then tell her something came up and you cannot go if she wanted to take a friend she can have the tickets and I bet she suddenly has a free schedule. Low interest, you are a pen pal.
frankspeci Posted January 3, 2019 Posted January 3, 2019 Meet other people. Text her back at your convenience. Let her set up a date. Avoid becoming pen pals unless that's genuinely what you want.
manfrombelow2 Posted January 5, 2019 Posted January 5, 2019 Everything failed when you spent the majority of your time just to talk on the phone and text each other, instead of asking her out, having fun and hook up. If I were you, I'd stop all the meaningless and useless chatting and talking on the phone immediately because I know my time & energy is too precious to be wasted entertaining a girl who doesn't want me back (proof: she made excuses not to go out with you) Remember: The phone is only used to set up real meetings, not for chatting or talking all nights. The more you talk on the phone without successfully "luring" her out physically, the more her interest levels in you drop like a bad habit and the faster you're getting into the friendzone.
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