Sparklebabe Posted December 30, 2018 Posted December 30, 2018 (edited) I ve been seeing this lad for a couple of months. We spend hours talking and he always asks about my life. On nights out he will.stay with me all night in the club rather than his friends. When people ask us what we are sometimes he says I m his mrs other times he will say sort of Mrs. I asked him what he is after and he said he would see where it goes but he said i don t really speak to him in the week so he thought I didn t want more. He said he has told his mum and dad about me too and said to me you think I m just goin to get rid of u don t you, I m not Anyway he messaged in the week. then last weekend in the club he said that it s his works Christmas party so he had to stay with his mates all night, so asked me to come and find him later. He was actually with his friends all night (no girls). So it s fine. Then 2 of his mates I hadn t met before came up to me and told me he does like me and is into me. So I messaged him this week and we spoke a bit and then he sent me.a pic of him and his friend sayin hi to me and asked how I was. I replied saying good u? And then he didn t reply to this... So now I m wondering why would he not reply if he likes me? I know he was at a football match that day so could this be why? This was a few days ago and i havent heard from him since. Not sure if I m over analysing or if he could lose interest? Thank you x Edited December 30, 2018 by Sparklebabe
smackie9 Posted December 30, 2018 Posted December 30, 2018 (edited) Why didn't you contact him? By what you have described of him, he is unsure of your interest in him. When someone is into someone they can get insecure...he sounds like that guy, and needs a lot of encouragement. After two months you should be crawling all over each other by now. You need to initiate and reciprocate. This guy an't gonna chase you if you just sit there and do nothing. Send him some flirty texts, and call him boo, say you miss him, you know butter up his ego by giving him a complement on how hot he is, etc. Guys like that from their woman. Edited December 30, 2018 by smackie9
See-Me-Feel-Me Posted December 30, 2018 Posted December 30, 2018 Why didn't you contact him? By what you have described of him, he is unsure of your interest in him. When someone is into someone they can get insecure...he sounds like that guy, and needs a lot of encouragement. After two months you should be crawling all over each other by now. You need to initiate and reciprocate. This guy an't gonna chase you if you just sit there and do nothing. Send him some flirty texts, and call him boo, say you miss him, you know butter up his ego by giving him a complement on how hot he is, etc. Guys like that from their woman. I agree with everything, except calling him "boo".
Giraffe-A Posted December 30, 2018 Posted December 30, 2018 The minute he said he had told his mom and dad about you, I would have grabbed his face and kissed him. He’s been letting you know in person how he feels so put your phone down, go meet him, pull him to the side and make a move.
masonjar24 Posted December 30, 2018 Posted December 30, 2018 Could use some more background and info on this person, and what you guys are to each other. Do you guys only meet up in the club? Do you see each other outside of the club. Do you have each others numbers? How did you meet. There is a lot of info missing to fully asses this situation.
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