darkrai100 Posted December 29, 2018 Posted December 29, 2018 So I met this girl who goes to the same college as me at a recent Christmas party a couple weeks ago. She's a sophomore, I'm a junior. After getting her number that night, she's been consistently replying to my texts every day. The other day, she asked me if I knew about this folklore at school. She tells me that the saying goes something like, if you're single before Christmas during your second year of college, you'll be single for the remaining two years. I've never heard that saying, but since I haven't directly asked her if she's single, I took the opportunity to do so. So I replied, "that probably explains why I'm still single". She then said that she thinks I'm very nice and have nothing to worry about. Then I asked her if she has to worry about this folklore herself and whether or not she believes in it. She tells me that she's single, and that she's been single for many years now to the point that she doesn't feel there's a difference anymore, although sometimes she still thinks about it. Does this sound like someone who's interested? Or simply just wanting to be friends?
smackie9 Posted December 29, 2018 Posted December 29, 2018 The only way to know is to be confident in yourself and ask her on a date. Shoot from the hip and getter done.
reepokid Posted December 29, 2018 Posted December 29, 2018 She's absolutely interested. She wouldn't have given you her number if she wasn't. Get your confidence up and ask her out. Nothing to lose.
See-Me-Feel-Me Posted December 29, 2018 Posted December 29, 2018 At least start talking by phone. Text is chicken-shi+. If you fear rejection ask her to breakfast or lunch rather than dinner or a freaking rave (lol). If she meets with you, you're halfway there. Don't bungle it and stop dragging your feet.
preraph Posted December 29, 2018 Posted December 29, 2018 Only one way to find out, Cowboy. Ask her on a date already! What are you waiting for? A date isn't a marriage proposal. You can ask girls on dates without knowing anything about each other and then if that doesn't go well, you just move on. But if you keep waiting for some kind of guarantee from her, she's going to see you as slow and scared. So ask her out already.
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