fullofhope2day Posted September 15, 2005 Posted September 15, 2005 I always feel like men are flirting with me... I know that maybe they aren't but I always feel like they are and maybe men think that I am flirting with them because, I make it a point to say hello and goodbye to everyone I have interaction w/ I smile a lot and I am lighthearted most of the time so I kid and joke around with people a lot, I also make it a habit to look people in the eyes when I speak to them. I am hard of hearing when there is a lot of background noise so I will lean in close to be able to hear men when they speak to me b/c I have a harder time w/ low men's voices than with high womens. So I think this makes men think I am flirting or interested when I'm not. But then, Sometimes though I feel like it is my goal to make a guy like me enough to flirt with me and if he doesn't I feel like he doesn't like me. Am I crazy?
laRubiaBonita Posted September 15, 2005 Posted September 15, 2005 soooo do not act soo flirty...i.e, leaning in close, touching.... You said yourself, you feel as if a male does NOT flirt with you, then basically you "have not done your job"...so stop being so flirtatious.
whichwayisup Posted September 15, 2005 Posted September 15, 2005 Sometimes though I feel like it is my goal to make a guy like me enough to flirt with me and if he doesn't I feel like he doesn't like me. Am I crazy? It shouldn't make a difference if a guy does/doesn't flirt back with you. If he happens to notice and smiles back, great! If not, don't internalize it and get upset and wonder why he isn't flirty back. Maybe he's married, or is involved with somebody - Doesn't feel it's appropriate to be flirty or maybe he's not a flirty person. Everybody is different in that sense...
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