Two girls I dated got in touch with me on christmas eve?

[Rudytwo]

Within an hour of each other on Christmas Eve, I received out of the blue messages from two women I've dated in the past. They were the ones who ended things.

 

They both contacted me wishing me a merry Christmas and asked how I was dong. One of them messaged me along with photos of me she had 'found on her phone' and mentioned she was listening to a band I had introduced her to. I hadn't spoken to her for almost two years before this, and we only dated for about a month.

 

The second girl contacted me and said she was 'wondering how I was doing' when I asked her why she had contacted me after 8 months. We only went on two dates but got on well and slept with each other both times we met. She ended things by telling me she 'didn't want a relationship', but had a boyfriend about a month after this who she is still with. From what I know about this guy, he seems to be a waster with no real prospects. Weirdly she continued messaging me throughout Christmas day asking what I was doing, and stopped replying when I told her I was going to see my girlfriend.

 

I'm guessing they're both single/having relationship troubles and are feeling lonely and regretful, and both were looking for an ego boost? It was such a strange situation, and I'm wondering how to take it and what's going on here? Thanks

[Cersei]

You go dude! You must have left a lasting impression on these 2.

[alphamale]

just disregard both of them

[Marc878]

Holidays bring on nostalgia which is fleeting.

 

Nothing there of substance. Breadcrumbs

[nodramallama]

Holidays bring on nostalgia which is fleeting.

 

Nothing there of substance. Breadcrumbs

 

Yep. It's cuffing season.

[Malin889]

I think you should explore these further. That is, if you are single and interested. Why not? Maybe something good will come out of contacting one of them.

[Interstellar]

What do they want? a Christmas card or something?

 

Forget them. They’ll get your hopes up and ultimately waste your time.

 

Don’t beat up a dead horse.

[Shining One]

If you're up for some New Year's Eve sex, I'd say go for it. If you're looking for something more substantial, you should look elsewhere.

[Highndry]

Stormy seas on the love boat, so they're kicking the tires on past flings. A lot of women do this.

[emeraldgreen]

They're lonely over the holidays and want to see who is still orbiting. They wrote to fulfil their needs, not yours.

[Malin889]

Everyone is so negative about this. I still think you should contact them - if you want to.