Struggling with a breakup

December 27, 2018

Hello everyone this is my first thread and I thought it would be nice to talk to people and take their opinions since I feel weak at this moment.

I've had a boyfriend for two years and we were supposed to have our 2nd year anniversary on the 2nd of January.

The thing is that we met in Dubai and lived together for year and half and then his company moved him to Singapore so we decided it would be good for me to go there because he invited me to come with him and told me how much he loved me etc. He even told me he would marry me so it would be easy to find a job etc... So we left Dubai at the same time and he moved earlier than me. I had a problem with my visa got rejected the first time but the second time I got accepted. I went there on a tourist visa for one month and I wasn't happy with some things that he was doing. I knew his phone password since Dubai because I had to dig it since I saw that he was always talking to his ex and we had a lot of issues because of that he wouldn't stop flirting with her (that's why he puts a password so i will not see what he is doing). I'm not the type of a girl who snoops on her boyfriend but if I feel that someone is lying to me and is not trustworthy I will do everything to figure out what is going on. Anways I had to act normal even though it was very painful. The messages were like I love you, no one ever made me feel like you, we will never find love like this it's hard etc etc and her sending him pics of their years together kissing and she's begging him to leave me and that her dream is to be with him etc.

Anyways on my last weekend with him in Singapore he said to me why don't you cancel your ticket back home and let's go to Indonesia to spend Christmas & New year together. He told me you leave on Tuesday morning to Indonesia and then I will follow you on Saturday the 22nd. I was like yea i m more than happy but i will be short on money because i spent all my money in Singapore now and i don't have money in my card so can i borrow your card? he said yes sure and you can pay me later. (during the weekend he was putting a breakup song and he was listening to it endlessly and i was telling him come on stop let's put happy songs etc..). I bought my ticket to indonesia from my card, cancelled my ticket back home and bought my return ticket from indonesia to lebanon(home) which was kind of expensive and btw i already got him his early christmas gift that day. it was fine during the day, we did have some miscommunication because i was saying i was talking to dad and dad makes me happy he's nice and sweet and he said i don't make you that happy? i said well i dunno to be honest (i was thinking about him and his ex how they talk and he wasn't that nice to me lately). Anwyays the next day i called the embassy of thailand because i wanted to make sure if i can do any transit and it was negative so i was frustrated because i had to leave the next day and had to cancel my ticket i tried my best. I went to have lunch with him it was supposed to be my last lunch in Singapore before going to indonesia. I told him can i please borrow your card again because i have to buy my return ticket etc he was like no i can't give you money like this i just moved to Singapore recently and don't want any trouble. He was acting very weird and not nice at all and he said why don't you mention to your dad let him give you money and i said well my parents are divorced and i never ask dad for money but im asking you and i will return your money (i never took money from him all my life i was actually paying for our house in Dubai with cheques and he was paying me whenever he can and i was also paying for a lot of things and borrowing him money, i've been very nice about it). Anyways I said okay it's fine i will ask my friend or cousin to help me out that's totally fine i m sorry i asked he was like ok i don't wanna eat anymore i don't feel like it you ruined my mood etc.. and i was like ok sorry about that and we left. He went to his office and I went home.

When i went home i saw that he texted his exgf (i saw it on whatsapp web because i got his whatsapp web a week before he does all of this to me since i was suspicious something was happening) he sent to his ex a pic of him sending her a kiss and being flirty telling her he is very handsome and i dunno what and she did the same and then they were flirting.. I was very angry and decided not to talk to him even on my last day. During the day he was asking me i had found my ticket and he is willing to pay for it and i said no i don't want that's fine i can manage myself thanks for asking.

At night we met with our friend and went to a night safari and him and i were not talking. We dropped her in the taxi and he was saying to me did you buy your ticket and i said not yet once we are back home i will buy it. He said how are you gonna buy it? i said to him i spoke to my friend and she said she was more than happy to buy it for me. So he got angry and he said you ask everyone but you don't ask your dad to help you with anything and i said to him well dad has a problem with his debit card as i tried to buy my ticket from him in the past in my home country they block online transactions with the debit card and you can only buy with credit card. He said to me your dad is broke in front of the taxi man and i didn't reply to him as i didn't want to do any problem but found that to be disrespectful.

As we got home we went to get some food from mcdonald's and got back to the apartment he told me i m sick of you, i m tired of you, don't wake me up in the morning to say goodbye and he just left me and slammed the door of the bedroom. I slept on the couch all night(well i didn't sleep i was crying myself out actually because i could have went home if i knew this was going to happen to me i didn't have any money, for 4 months i didn't work i had to pay for everything in dubai and didn't have a job because i lost it also).

I left the next day took all my stuff and for 4 days he didn't even ask about me. The day before he comes to indonesia i said to him

"Just wanted to let you know that i m disappointed not only you disrespected me that day but also you didn't check to see if i Had arrived safely. I know you will never be sorry about anything basically you don't care about me. It seems you are not coming tomorrow, you ditched me and shut me off without me having a word. I will look for a ticket to go back home today or tomorrow morning. I honesty don't wanna spend Christmas & New years by myself"

he messaged me back saying:

"I didnt care to hear what you have to say, i am tired of your bull****, literally i have zero patience for that anymore, not even to hear it-yes, i am dissapointed too, same thing happened with elina in the past and i didnt want to have anything to do with her anymore.. well, honestly i was planning to come tomorrow since already my tickets are booked, but if you are looking for a ticker to leave (or bought it already) then maybe there is no point.. let me know what u plan to do so i know"

and then i said:

"well I didn't say anything to bother you i m not sure why you disrespected me so much that day even in the taxi you did that I stayed until today thinking maybe you will text me or call me to check on me. I never mistreated you or disrespected you i would have never left without you saying goodbye even if you had to leave or even if i was mad at you. You showed me that you don't care and you don't love me or wanna be with me anymore. I didn't get any ticket yet back home thinking that we could still fix this. I don't understand how you can bring Elina to this. I m your girlfriend for two years and this is how you treat me in the end?"

Elina was his friend btw

so he said:

"It is relevant in the way that in both cases i gave so much and helped so much and sacrificed a lot and all i got back was ungratefulness, and this is something that neither i can tolerate nor forgive.. with your behaviour in the last day you ruined everything for me.. anyways dont want to talk abt it over mssgs-since u r not going i ll come tomorrow and talk there-i pressume u already know where the hotel is since you have access to my emails so meet you there"

and i replied:

"excuse me? I didn't give a lot or helped or sacrificed? i was always there for you and supported you always had to keep silent about your ex and you flirting with her and never putting limits with her also instead of asking about me and showing me that you care about me and i m the girl you wanna be with. I had put up with your disrespectful behavior and shutting me off always without me saying a word?

my behavior? All i needed is your help and i told you i will send you back your money and you know i would never take anything from you i even helped with the house as much as I can with my abilities because i didn't want you to go through this alone. I even said to you that's fine i will manage myself and speak to my friend or cousin to help me out because i didn't wanna bother you i was not even aggressive with you at all. But to leave me like that on monday night? Tell me not to wake you up to say goodbye? talking to me in a bad way and slamming the door and i m still talking to you?

If you are thinking to come tomorrow and make me feel bad after all what happened i will just go home. I want a person who truly loves me and is honest with me not someone who disrespects me and treats me like ****."

and he said to me:

"Well the truth is i booked my flights already and the hotel so i dont really have a choice... even if you leave i will still go there..

So let me know if u r there or not"

so i figured this:

"if you are thinking for us to have a mature talk and fix this relationship then i'd consider staying and if not you think you are right about everything and not willing to fix what we have and make it work then i m gonna leave"

he mentioned that i should do whatever i want and i said to him

"it's either you want us to fix this or you don't want"

and he was like

"I dont want to fix anything

Thats what im telling you if u feel like going go, i will go to indonesia anyways even by myself since i paid for everything already

So do whatever you want"

So i got the message and booked my ticket back home after 2 days because i couldn't find any earlier one. My cousin booked it for me because i didn't have any money anymore..

The next day he comes to indonesia and i m not sure why he expected me to be waiting for him in the hotel i didn't even go there. He actually stated calling me and texting me and went mental and he wa slooking for me i didn't answer him as i was bothered and booked my ticket already so i was not planning to see him. At night he sends me a message like this:

"I was preparing a big '**** you' mssg that i was writing for 30mins; when i finished it, i read it one more time and then i deleted it.. i thought this is not who i am and this is not what u mean to me.. despite what you might think about me i really cared about you and i really loved you with all my heart and i dont want to hurt you (at least not more).. after these 2 years i didnt want to end it with a mssg like that-you hurt me too much these days and i was very angry with you but i want you to know that i think you are a wonderful person with a heart of very rare quality that very few people i have met have... you gave me a lot of moments that i will never forget and you were there for me in one of the worst periods of my life which also i will never forget.. i think celinaki that you have 2 sides: one side is this wonderful very timid and loving girl with a heart of gold that is polite to everyone and makes you want to give the world to her-this is the girl i fell in love with, i remember the first day i met you i was thinking 'god, i wish i had a girlfriend like that..' and then my wish came true! the other side is of this non-trusting, jealous, spiteful person, always suspicious, very needy, very pushy and full of drama.. i tried to change your 2nd side many times but i couldnt.. and at the end of the day it is not fair also for me to try and change you-we are who we are... i want to thank you for all the moments you have given me and for making me happy (most of the times hehe) and for putting up with me, i know sometimes i am too much; and i want you to be always happy! You will always have a friend in me (i know you dont care now) but i will always be there for you if u need me. I feel like an idiot writing you this mssg after ditching me here to spend xmas and new year s by myself but it s ok-i ll manage somehow haha i got you a xmas present also from singapore, i guess i will give it to the receptionist hahaha take care , have fun wherever you are and merry christmas!!"

Oh and i figured later he didn't get me any present he was just messing..

Anyways my heart was broken and felt so sad and felt i needed to see him and maybe fix things because i loved this person with all my heart really..

I called him and he said let's meet and i went to the hotel..

he told me i don't wanna ever marry you and i don't wanna get married and i said for 2 years we have been together you told me you would like to marry me and you told me to come to Singapore and i left everything for you he didn't reply to that and he said i was a very jealous and suspicious, needy person, i said no it's because i figured that you are emotionally cheating on me and i m gonna be honest with you. I told him that i saw all his messages and i said that he didn't put limits with his ex for 2 years and i had to struggle with that and i told him i never felt loved or appreciated because of this. You never put me first etc he was like not true i loved you and i was like no and i mentioned all his messages and what i saw and how devastated i am and he was not even sorry and said i should be sorry because i got all these info and snooped on him i told him even she sent you naked pictures and you flirted with her boobs while i was in indonesia struggling without money because of you and you were telling her about the song that you have been listening to over the weekend etc etc he was not happy about this and didn't want to apologize and he said i was not a normal person and we are not on the same page apparently like he doesn't want to marry me ever and he doesn't want to make a family and he said if we come back together i want you to stay in lebanon and if you come to singapore i want you to have your own place.. he said all our problems were because we were living together which i don't agree and i told him all of our problems because you have been disrespecting me for a long time. anyways i was so tired and had to go to my flight and he didn't let me he told me let's stay together for christmas and see how things goes ( i was thinking he just wants a company because he was alone in indonesia) so i was like no i m gonna leave i had already booked my ticket and i m not changing that actually i m not gonna lose my money and struggle to talk to people to buy me another one and he said i would buy it for you and you pay me back and i said no i m not gonna ask for money from you anymore) anyways he started kissing me and i got very weak but i did mention that he was using me and he said no i m not i love you and i want us to fix this etc so we made love and then i left and he did say we are still together but we need to figure out what we want..

I left to the airport and i called him later and he didn't answer me at all. He sent me a screenshot of his conversation with his ex and he told her that he is with me and he must respect me now and that she should stop talking to him like that. so he told me

"I spoke to her today, Told her that im with you and she needs to stop writing me like that"

and by that time i saw on his fb that he texted his friend and asked him to come for new years to Singapore and that he broke up with me and they will order some hookers and stuff like that i know it was a joke but he seemed to be very happy about this. (he doesn't know i have his fb also)

so i texted him during the day:

"I was trying to call you because I was wondering if we are together and working things out now since I stayed with you the night and we had a positive approach but I'm not sure what your plans are. Are you gonna tell people that we broke up or working things out?

Thanks for saying that. I hope she understands."

i saw that he deleted his conversation with her but he was still talking to her instead of talking to me because i saw his messages and they're not that great..

he didn't get back to me about this but the next day he wished me merry christmas and he did the same for her but he sent her a like a funny picture..

I said to him "same to you" and that was it!

And now he is back to singapore and he will be partying all weekend as if nothing happened and he throwed a 2 year relationship because he doesn't give a **** about me.

In the past we used to fight a lot of because of his ex and but he never cheated on me with another girl i m sure of this..

On the plane i felt like i regret leaving but all i wanted is to think about my mental health and myself for once because i was thinking this guy doesn't care about me...

I don't know if he will ever regret what he did to me. But sometimes i hope he comes back to me but then for what if he doesn't care..

I'm not gonna be one of the girls i want my ex to regret leaving me but it really hurts to be in my place. Losing your job and so many offers and leaving a country for a person who never appreciated you.. I'm devastated and i m not sure how to forget..

I'm thinking to remove all of our pictures next week from fb and delete his number, delete him from fb too(i know it may sound immature but it's the only for me to forget i guess)

(btw he never uploaded our pictures, he only had pictures with his ex and i made him remove them after being together for one year)

Also do you think he will ever regret doing what he did and come back and apologize to me?

***Sorry for the long thread***

December 27, 2018

Will apologize to yourself for putting up with this, his ex, his texts, you missing out on good opportunites, and the disrespect of your father?

Do you realize that you made the choice to follow this guy? I know you’re hurting now, but the New Year is here and you should go back home and find a great job. Do something nice for yourself.

December 27, 2018

You're absolutely right that's what I thought and i told him how much he hurted me when he said this about my father even if my father was broke he cannot say something like that! and i m not sure why he texted me and told his ex to stop messaging him like that like he took a screenshot and eventually deleted all his messages. I'm home now.. What do you think my next steps should be? I m so hurt to be honest and i wanted him to feel what i felt.. i wish he can regret whatever he has done to me.

December 27, 2018

i really wanted to text him yesterday and tell him you didn't reply to my message that means you used me that day and i don't see the point of having contact together anymore i m not sure if i should remove him from social media and remove all of our pictures... i m not sure how to make him regret!

January 4, 2019

he sent me a message 2 days ago telling me happy new year wish you all the best for this year and didn't reply to him.

So he sent me an email today and it broke my heart even more because he doesn't realize the damage that he has done and it's not about marriage. Marriage is only 5% of the problem.

his email was this:

"Hey celinaki!

Happy New Year!! I wish all the best for you for the New Year!! I tried to write you in whats app but you didn't see it and then I tried to write you a mssg inbox in fb but your account seemed deactivated so I thought you were angry with me and didn't want to talk to me anymore.

However, I wanted to write you a few things to tell you how I feel because it's important to me. After you left me in Indonesia I was trying to understand my feelings and I didn't feel bitter just very sad and lonely after a long time so I wanted to write you sth to explain to you how i feel-maybe you don't care but it means a lot to me. I don't believe there is a way for us to be together anymore-despite that we love each other and we are having a lot of fun around each other (at least I'm speaking for myself hehe) there are things that are beyond fixing anymore. You feel that I betrayed you and didn't respect you by talking to my ex and I feel that there is no way I can trust you ever again after you found a way to check my whats app conversation with her. I warned you many times in the past that my privacy is very important to me and despite that, you didn't trust me and tried to 'spy" on me many times and every time I wanted to give you another chance you did exactly the same thing. So I believe that trust is a very delicate balance that when is broken it is very difficult; almost impossible to fix. I am not saying these things to blame you for anything-it doesn't matter anymore, at least not to me-I am just telling you how I feel.

I am sorry if I disrespected you in any way, I didn't mean to; and I am sorry if I wasn't the person you wanted me to be. I really loved you with all my heart, I believe you are a very rare person, the best kind of people in this world; and I don't think I will ever meet a person with a heart as kind as yours. For this I think you deserve the best and I don't think I am that person who can give that to you. I was talking to my friend Argiris and he told me that he broke up with Anastasia because even though he loved her-he doesn't want to have a family or get married or anything more serious than what they have now-so he told me I didn't want to waste her time and all these years that we are together will be for nothing if she has other plans... I feel also the same way-for a long time you have been telling me that you wanted to get married and have family and to be honest I think you are the right person for that-if you ever have a family and children of your own I think that you will be very happy and that your children will be very lucky to have you, I honestly believe that. I just, cannot see myself anywhere in this picture Celine-I don't want to waste your time also, be with you for another 5 years and then tell you that this life doesn't interest me at all. So I think the right thing to do is tell you that your dreams I cannot make them come true, and I don't want to be in the way because I really want you to be happy.

Anyways, for all of these reasons I believe that we are at a crossroads now and our lives leads us to different paths. I loved you so much and I have only good memories of you-I want to thank you for everything you have given me and all the moments that we lived together I will never forget them. I wanted you to know, because I know it's important for you; that I have never cheated on you or done anything with any other girl all this while that we have been together and I respect you as a person more than I respect myself to be honest (even though I know you don't think so). You will always have a special place in my heart Celine and I really want you to be happy even not with me on your side. I will always have a soft spot for you and, although, I know that now you don't want to talk to me (or maybe even ever again) I would really like to talk to you every once in a while and know your news and how you are (for me it is very important, but it is up to you and I will respect whatever you decide). You will always have a -I don't know if 'friend' is the right word- but let's say a person who cares about you very much. If you ever need anything from me or need my help for anything I will always be there for you. I will never forget you Celinaki and I know it is difficult to move on and takes time and it hurts for both of us but try to be happy please; I hate to imagine you hurting and crying; I want always to remember and think of you smiling and laughing I hope you will be always happy and I hope all your dreams come true! And for New Year's Resolution you should try not to cry this year again and always smile!! (my resolution was to lose some weight hahaha).

You will always be for sure my favourite Lebanese person in the world!!! I hope; no I 'm sure we will meet again one day!

Nikos

PS. I hope one day when you don't want to kill me anymore you will write me to say 'hi' until then I will not bother you again I promise and I will respect if you don't want to have any communication with me again. :)"

I personally wanted to send him an email complaining how he treated me badly and that i don't even consider to be a friend after all the pain that he caused me etc etc but then i thought maybe it's just better to ignore his email and move on with my life because no matter how i will make him understand the pain that he has caused me he will still believe that i m the problem and that i want to get married or something which is very weird...

i m just so sad i love him so much and i keep on crying and i m devastated to be honest but there is no way back.. not from his side and of course not mine after what happened.. if only he was apologizing and wanted us back i would cross the miles again to be with him

Would you reply to such email?

January 4, 2019

I'm going trough a similar situation. Could give you some tips. Contact me.

January 4, 2019

No, I wouldn't reply. That letter was your closure. Now you can just block him and move on with your life.

January 4, 2019

No reply is necessary. I’m sorry for your pain. But, there is no future with this man. He was clearly having an emotional affair with his ex, and that is a form of cheating/betrayal. Delete and block him and do what you need to do to grieve and move on.

January 4, 2019

Hi Celine ,

When I witness a girl suffering from a bastard I feel hurt ; yet when I know she is Lebanese too i feel hurt twice .

frankly , you enabled him to do a lot , and now there are two ways :

-Ignore him and proceed in your life (I think you can't you want a revenge ,,,,...:typical Leb ).

-get help ( to teach him the Lebanese way, you need a lebanese guy help )...

January 4, 2019

One of things a lot of people (and plenty of them are very eager to fill every post) do here is recommend something in this lines:

- He/she is bad, just go NC

- Grieve

- Start new life

But to be honest, if that was a solution, there would be no posts in this forum, everyone would do it.

January 4, 2019

@SkunkSmile what kind of advice can you give me to overcome this?!

@stillafool @hippychick3 i m not sure i was thinking to actually send an email saying how bad he was and send screenshots, say that i only did this because i found out about your first message and it dragged me if only you were trustworthy we wouldn't get to this position and about the marriage i didn't even mention that so i m not sure what's going on here and tell him how he made me suffer and i stayed without money also because he screwed me over and over again and how i moved to another country for hm and eventually this is what happens and that i don't wanna be his friend because if he cared he wouldn't let me go through all of this bull**** and of course mention how he played me to stay and use me in order to make me think we are fixing everything i wanted to say all of this to him just to let it out..

but then you guys think it's better not to send an email at all? i just don't want to drag this over and over again and hurt myself but at the same time i want him to understand the pain that he caused me and how screwed me over..

@zouz71 i m so glad to see a Lebanese guy here supporting me! haha

how can a Lebanese guy help me?

January 5, 2019

@SkunkSmile what kind of advice can you give me to overcome this?!

@stillafool @hippychick3 i m not sure i was thinking to actually send an email saying how bad he was and send screenshots, say that i only did this because i found out about your first message and it dragged me if only you were trustworthy we wouldn't get to this position and about the marriage i didn't even mention that so i m not sure what's going on here and tell him how he made me suffer and i stayed without money also because he screwed me over and over again and how i moved to another country for hm and eventually this is what happens and that i don't wanna be his friend because if he cared he wouldn't let me go through all of this bull**** and of course mention how he played me to stay and use me in order to make me think we are fixing everything i wanted to say all of this to him just to let it out..
but then you guys think it's better not to send an email at all? i just don't want to drag this over and over again and hurt myself but at the same time i want him to understand the pain that he caused me and how screwed me over..

@zouz71 i m so glad to see a Lebanese guy here supporting me! haha
how can a Lebanese guy help me?

Dear Celine ;

so where are you now , Lebanon ?

Seeing you talking about what hurts you is a good sign , this way the road to healing is shorter.

obviously what existed between you guys is not real love , you don't want to get stuck in a marriage for years with someone who can't make you happy .

i am not blaming you for the time wasted , but better late than never ...

A mature Lebaneese friend can help you realize the difference between various relationship types within the framework of your culture.

you need to heal from this relationship , take some revenge (by making him suffer emotionally),then move on .

You need caring friends around you to cross the road, good friends .

do you have them ?

TC

January 5, 2019

IMO, sending an email will only be dragging it out. I don’t think you’ll add anything that you haven’t already told him. He doesn’t want to admit he’s at fault, and sending another email won’t change that. I would personally just move on. It’s difficult and breaks out heart, but it’s usually for the best.

January 6, 2019

Dear Celine ;
so where are you now , Lebanon ?

Seeing you talking about what hurts you is a good sign , this way the road to healing is shorter.

obviously what existed between you guys is not real love , you don't want to get stuck in a marriage for years with someone who can't make you happy .

i am not blaming you for the time wasted , but better late than never ...

A mature Lebaneese friend can help you realize the difference between various relationship types within the framework of your culture.

you need to heal from this relationship , take some revenge (by making him suffer emotionally),then move on .

You need caring friends around you to cross the road, good friends .

do you have them ?

TC

Dear @zouz71 yes i m back home.. thanks for making me feel strong i m trying to write about this instead of writing him and going mental lol! So better to write here and discuss it with you guys..

It's a shame because i thought it was true love but true love is not supposed to hurt us this way.. I believe it was a love from one side (my side) because if he did he wouldn't do this to me and he is just trying to have a clean breakup from me..

The thing is that he was greek so it's not about cultures and i believed for some time we had a similar culture but not really from his side.

I no longer have friends in Lebanon because i was living in a different country but i m trying to reconnect with some people. How do i make him suffer emotionally?

January 6, 2019

IMO, sending an email will only be dragging it out. I don’t think you’ll add anything that you haven’t already told him. He doesn’t want to admit he’s at fault, and sending another email won’t change that. I would personally just move on. It’s difficult and breaks out heart, but it’s usually for the best.

@SophieG you're actually right it's easier said then done though.. but you are absolutely right whatever i m gonna do it's not gonna change his mind and make him apologize for the mistakes that he has done he only apologized in a generic way but he did put the blame on me so what's the point? Although i wish i can send him an email stating what he did wrong and i feel like i m gonna regret one day for not sending my email.. but life is short! and in a few years i will forget about all of what i wanted to say anyways.

January 6, 2019

Dear @zouz71 yes i m back home.. thanks for making me feel strong i m trying to write about this instead of writing him and going mental lol! So better to write here and discuss it with you guys..

It's a shame because i thought it was true love but true love is not supposed to hurt us this way.. I believe it was a love from one side (my side) because if he did he wouldn't do this to me and he is just trying to have a clean breakup from me..

The thing is that he was greek so it's not about cultures and i believed for some time we had a similar culture but not really from his side.

I no longer have friends in Lebanon because i was living in a different country but i m trying to reconnect with some people. How do i make him suffer emotionally?

Dear Celine,

true love is very rare nowadays ;

we used to use things and love people

now we love things and use people

you need friends , good ones to go through this period .

you will have now some in LS , and some real

learn how to choose good ppl .

I can be both if you want , though i am not a good person

you can send me a message if you feel bored , i can play an online game or arcade with you hehe .

January 6, 2019

Dear Celine,

true love is very rare nowadays ;

we used to use things and love people
now we love things and use people

you need friends , good ones to go through this period .

you will have now some in LS , and some real

learn how to choose good ppl .

I can be both if you want , though i am not a good person

you can send me a message if you feel bored , i can play an online game or arcade with you hehe .

True that. True love is rare nowadays.

what makes you think you are not a good person? hehe

Thanks for your help! what kind of games haha

January 6, 2019

True that. True love is rare nowadays.

what makes you think you are not a good person? hehe

Thanks for your help! what kind of games haha

let's meet over a coffee Then , it is windy today we could fly even

January 11, 2019

Hi Celine ,

Are you better now ?

January 11, 2019

Hi Celine ,

Are you better now ?

hey! sorry i thought I replied to your message to message me privately? maybe we could meet. Not sure how to message privately here! lol

I'm not that great to be honest i had a very bad dream yesterday about him so i ran to his fb and found out he is looking for some random girls.. they look like some girls he got from Tinder.. such a shame i thought he was better than this but yea he never loved me so what do i expect

January 11, 2019

Hi Celine , Thanks for replying ,

you need to enable private messaging through this link :

https://www.loveshack.org/forums/profile.php?do=editoptions

January 11, 2019

hey! sorry i thought I replied to your message to message me privately? maybe we could meet. Not sure how to message privately here! lol
I'm not that great to be honest i had a very bad dream yesterday about him so i ran to his fb and found out he is looking for some random girls.. they look like some girls he got from Tinder.. such a shame i thought he was better than this but yea he never loved me so what do i expect

Real; love is not a spark ,

it is a continuous process of dedication,respect , givology .

most love stories fails when only the hearts is touched ,

it needs both compatibility and chemistry .

Obviously your ex is a selfish person and he loves only himself ; so don't be surprised that he is looking immediately for a substitute ...

if he was honest he would have been frank with you by telling you that what he wants is a friends with benefit .

"The most Coward is a man who awakes the heart of a woman...

without the intention of loving her ".

January 11, 2019

Real; love is not a spark ,

it is a continuous process of dedication,respect , givology .

most love stories fails when only the hearts is touched ,

it needs both compatibility and chemistry .

Obviously your ex is a selfish person and he loves only himself ; so don't be surprised that he is looking immediately for a substitute ...

if he was honest he would have been frank with you by telling you that what he wants is a friends with benefit .

"The most Coward is a man who awakes the heart of a woman...
without the intention of loving her ".

why did we live together for one year and half if he wanted us to be friends with benefits? what a douche really it hurts but he was bad to me..

January 11, 2019

why did we live together for one year and half if he wanted us to be friends with benefits? what a douche really it hurts but he was bad to me..

could you please send me a msg privately? i dunno how to use this haha

January 11, 2019

could you please send me a msg privately? i dunno how to use this haha

I meant he is not a sincere person with what he had done to you , from his side it was a fake love; built on benefits of having you ...

be happy to discover him at this stage celine.

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