50 year old "single" guy keeps tagging himself on recent divorcee facebook page

[depcharger]

I have known the female for 10 years. (she's 50 now) I knew she was married so besides greetings and fitness stuff ( We met at a gym we both attend)

I didn't never tried to talk to her beside being friendly and polite

I met her when she was 40 she was on her 2nd marriage and the second husband is a local police officer ( I had seen him in person and I saw his facebook where he also showed he was a police officer)

 

I have always been attracted to her, but knew she was married so I kept my distance

 

about 2-3 months ago?

the husbands picture disappeared from her facebook cover picture and he stopped liking her pictures and posts

 

cover page photo was replaced by picture of her kids only

 

She's part of some entrepreneurship group

and its been about 2 months a member ( a 50 year old dude) of this same group

on a near daily basis posts his status on her page,

 

John is with cindy at xxxyyy gym

john was at jjjlll event with cindy

cindy was was john at his 50th birthday party

etc

etc

 

 

On her instagram page, where she never featured her police officer husband she posted a picture of them at a football game together

 

Both of them have single status but it seems too much to just be friends

 

Even when I dated in my 20's i never barraged my partners facebook with constant statuses

 

My question

1. Would you engage or allow another person to engage in such behavior with you if you were not dating them?

 

2. Why would a 50 year old man do this?

[Simple Logic]

Maybe she is trying to make the cop husband jealous and asking him to post this stuff.

[chillii]

That's a good point , although l don't have anything to do with fb or the ridiculous childish bs even 50yr olds do on that thing.

But it's a bit fast to be plastering that crap on there and so obviously after just splitting with the ex so soon, if not for a reason.

 

 

 

Think l'd be givng her a wide miss if that's the kinda bullshyt she does.

[clia]

It's pretty clear they are dating and I see people of all ages tagging their significant other on Facebook when they are at events and are out together.

 

Why do you care so much what she and this guy are doing on Facebook?

[elaine567]

You cannot just assume that the marriage is over or that she is a divorcee just because the husband disappeared off her page 2-3 months ago.

I know some BSs will take the cheating husband off their pages, but they are still married...

 

The 50 yo single guy could indeed be her new bf or just an orbiter with no chance of being anything more than a friend... who knows?

 

 

If you are interested then maybe you need to speak to her, and find out the true lie of the land, rather than stalk her fb and assume things.

[kendahke]

They sound like they're both quite smitten with one another that they feel like teenagers again.

 

Why are you hating on them? Be glad your friend found someone who makes her feel alive again.

 

Do you believe she owes you a chance because you waited 10 years for her to read your mind about how you felt about her?