insecuremale Posted December 25, 2018 Posted December 25, 2018 So I been with my girlfriend for 2 years now. Everything has been going fantastically, we both have very fulfilling jobs, and living with her has been the best. She's been with 2 other guys before me and I've been with 2 other girls... the problem is I'm way below average down there, the first girl I lost it to, I was 13, but as I gotten older I realized just how small I actually am... fully erect, I'm about 2.5 inches long and my girth is that of a finger.. my ex before this amazing girl, was pretty cool and accepting of me. We did oral and it was the friction that did it for her.. The reason why I have hardly any partners is because of my insecurities about only being as big as an index finger which is why I hardly ever dated. I thought my girlfriend was just being nice, but I came to find out after reading some messages, (I was snooping which is wrong I know), that this guy who rarely messages her anymore was actually an ex, one of the guys that she was with that way.. and from the messages that I read he used to try to pressure her into having sex, but hated that she only did oral, and they would fight because his needs were not met, but she said that he was too big for her, and the two times they had sex, even with lube, she bled and would be really sore for several weeks, and he dumped her because of it. One of her friends who knows her well, asked her if things were going well with me, because my girlfriend was known as someone who hates sex, and wanted to know how I was taking it.. well she revealed that she believes she found the one (me) because I'm sweet, genuine, cute, funny, and believe it or not, "compatible with her" in the bedroom because she is so tight and small there, the previous guys were unbearable, and with me she could finally enjoy herself. I don't know how to feel about all this, and it just makes me feel super insecure about having a very small pen*s.. it is true, that I do have a fulfilling sex life with her (3-5 times a week), and I enjoy her time and company, and I love her a lot, I'm just not sure what to do, because part of me was wanting to eventually have surgery down there to at least be average, so I could feel more comfortable in my body. Anyways I'd love some advice on what I should do, and if I should let her messages bother me 1
Cersei Posted December 25, 2018 Posted December 25, 2018 Dude do nothing. You have nothing to worry about. Size really does not matter to most women. To me it does not. You have other body parts to please her with. Relax and forget about it. She is happy with you so be happy.
Garcon1986 Posted December 25, 2018 Posted December 25, 2018 If you really want to have penis enlargement surgery you should speak with a urologist, or a certified hospital that knows how to do these things. I think you should be happy with the physical size you have, and use it to your advantage. If she's truly thinking she likes your size then there's no problem. The snooping thing breaks your trust in her - I don't think you should have snooped on her phone. Be happy with what you have. There's no way to easily get over insecurity - only to train your mind to be happy with the body you've been given.
Giraffe-A Posted December 25, 2018 Posted December 25, 2018 I would say to wait and see how far your relationship with your gf goes before considering any drastic surgeries. She likes you this way. Many girls do! That should be enough to help put your mind at ease. If anything, she’ll probably break up with you if she finds you went into her personal stuff.
basil67 Posted December 25, 2018 Posted December 25, 2018 If you're being literal about your penis size, you need medical advice. Perhaps you've got an underlying medical issue.
2much4 Posted December 25, 2018 Posted December 25, 2018 I don't really get what you're upset about. I think thats just your insecurities talking. She's happy with your sex life. There's an excerpt of the kamasutra which describes what your gf is talking about quite well: If you pair a horse with a rabbit, the rabbit is going to feel a lot of pain. If you pair two rabbits together, they will have a lot of fun. Not every vagina is made for a really big penis. Just have fun and try not to judge yourself:)
elaine567 Posted December 25, 2018 Posted December 25, 2018 There is nothing enjoyable about being sore and bleeding after sex. Very many women are not fans of big penises. Your gf thinks you are perfect, so why mess it up with your insecurities?
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