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Could I just live my life as a lesbian?


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you are as much a lesbian as I am Donald Trump

 

I kind of felt that way in the past but it's like if I can just have sex with women be fine for a year or two and what not then sexually what the difference with me and them? If another woman came in my life for just this purpose it would be the same and I'd basically have a lesbian sex only which is basically what it is I have a lesbian sex life but I act a lot more like a straight female and I'm generally more attracted men than women day to day

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I think there is a consensus here that potentially endangering a married relationship is not acceptable in current social norms. If all parties approve of there being a "Other Woman" in the relationship, that's a different story. If you don't wish to hear this advice, then be wary of the potential consequences of going towards a emotional dead end if she one day says she needs to break contact because her husband doesn't approve. You are entitled to your beliefs but be wary of the consequences should things go wrong.

 

People's sexual preferences are also liable to go from one to the other over the years, that's no big deal. I wouldn't worry about labels too much, you rule your life, not your girlfriends.

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I think there is a consensus here that potentially endangering a married relationship is not acceptable in current social norms. If all parties approve of there being a "Other Woman" in the relationship, that's a different story. If you don't wish to hear this advice, then be wary of the potential consequences of going towards a emotional dead end if she one day says she needs to break contact because her husband doesn't approve. You are entitled to your beliefs but be wary of the consequences should things go wrong.

 

People's sexual preferences are also liable to go from one to the other over the years, that's no big deal. I wouldn't worry about labels too much, you rule your life, not your girlfriends.

 

I'm not an other woman if it weren't for me he's be single and thirdly the topic is about my sexuality here

 

And I don't have a girlfriend never have had one and don't want one and I am not in a relationship with anyone I'm single so you making up that I love her or anything is crazy. And icky tbh.

 

sexdoesn't equal love. Why does eveyone think it does? Like does a bitch love the stud? No so why does it always work this way with humans?

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If you are one of those people who can totally separate hooking up from the emotional aspect of having sex, good for you.

 

All I want to describe is that if everyone is happy, that's great. If hooking up is what you are looking for, that's great. I'm not trying to make you agree with me that sex equals love. If it starts to endanger their married relationship, you will be in for some trouble down the road. I actually agree with you that sex doesn't equal love - but sometimes the boundaries are blurred. The blurring is where many relationships fail.

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The other problem with having sex with a married person is it's dangerous. You never know how the betrayed spouse will react if they find out. Some can threaten violence against the person who is having sex with their spouse. Just be careful.

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