wtfhappend Posted December 23, 2018 Posted December 23, 2018 It's so confusing. She calls me n talks to me like everything's all good n talks about stuff that doesn't even matter. Like what she's doing. Where she is. Stuff about her parents like wth . Why is she trying to keep this non friendship non relationship bull crap. Like is she keeping me close to lead me on? I already made it clear I'm not her friend n that we have a Fricken family that she's throwing away. She bought me a Christmas present like . This is messed up. It's either she wants me or she doesn't . Anything relationship I brought up she ignored. But she expects me to listen to her nonsense . I get Co parenting because we don't have a choice. But am I really suppose to be ok with what she's done? Brokeup our family. Brokeup with me. Kicked me n my daughter out before our anniversary. Talking to some guy behind my back . What do you think is going on. AM I just on the back burner. Is she trying to rekindle things. Is this guilt n her acting like we're ok when I'm not. I'm so confuesed. I tried to get her back n I do no. I feel like if someone wanted you they would say it. Maybe she's afraid I'll reject her who knows. I can't go no contact because of our kid. What else can I do . Being up front doesn't give me an answer so Fricken annoyed/confuesed. First month she didn't even speak to me. It's been 2 .5 months since she left me. What does she want from me.
elaine567 Posted December 24, 2018 Posted December 24, 2018 She is I guess trying to make coparenting friendly and easy. Stop assuming everything she is doing is about trying to get you back and you will be fine...
Author wtfhappend Posted December 24, 2018 Author Posted December 24, 2018 She is I guess trying to make coparenting friendly and easy. Stop assuming everything she is doing is about trying to get you back and you will be fine... Well the reason why I think that is because she's sent me half naked photos. She's flirted sorry I should of said that. She's invited me over n wore like skimpy out fits. It's like a push n pull n push n pull. Co parenting hasn't been hard. She's like trying to get my attention sexually n the one time I showed any sort of interest back she pulled away.
Giraffe-A Posted December 24, 2018 Posted December 24, 2018 Power? She feels she can have you anytime. Find a new gf and this girl will really confuse the hell out of you, maybe even want you back. You determine how much you’re willing to take. You can’t control the texts and calls, but you can control your limited answer to parenting.
Author wtfhappend Posted December 24, 2018 Author Posted December 24, 2018 Power? She feels she can have you anytime. Find a new gf and this girl will really confuse the hell out of you, maybe even want you back. You determine how much you’re willing to take. You can’t control the texts and calls, but you can control your limited answer to parenting. Yea maybe. It's so messed up. It just doesn't make sense. I feel like her ego online took over n she liked the attention. IM just upset because now I have 2 options. Keeping fighting for my life back or start over from ground zero.
DKT3 Posted December 24, 2018 Posted December 24, 2018 Not to complicated, she wants to keep you close and engaged while she explores other relationships guilt free. The answer isn't complicated either, stop. Stop being her sounding broad about anything unrelated to your child.
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