HorsieLove Posted December 23, 2018 Posted December 23, 2018 Hi Everyone! Help/Advice needed...…. My manager introduced me to his roommate as he thought we would make a good match. There is obviously strong attraction between us.....he waited as I got busy to hand me his number. I sent him a text this morning letting him know I enjoyed meeting & talking with him; hope there's more time for that again soon. He responded with "Agreed!" Do I leave it "there" and the ball is in his court, or do I send another text or anything-possibly suggesting coffee.....but honestly I want to be pursued. Confused
hippychick3 Posted December 23, 2018 Posted December 23, 2018 Definitely leave it. Ball is in his court. If you want to be pursued, you need to let him pursue you.
smackie9 Posted December 23, 2018 Posted December 23, 2018 (edited) He handed YOU his number...that is not a good sign. That's says, call me, maybe I will ask you out or I'm too insecure to actually approach women so my roommate does it as a favor, too insecure to ask you for your number, too insecure to see that I had the opportunity to ask you out but I bailed. Good luck on getting pursued. This guy has no confidence. Now ask yourself is this the type of guy you want to date? You OK with initiating dates? Is passive OK with you? Edited December 23, 2018 by smackie9
alphamale Posted December 24, 2018 Posted December 24, 2018 just sit tight for a few days and see what happens
SunnyWeather Posted December 24, 2018 Posted December 24, 2018 Hi Everyone! Help/Advice needed...…. My manager introduced me to his roommate as he thought we would make a good match. There is obviously strong attraction between us.....he waited as I got busy to hand me his number. I sent him a text this morning letting him know I enjoyed meeting & talking with him; hope there's more time for that again soon. He responded with "Agreed!" Do I leave it "there" and the ball is in his court, or do I send another text or anything-possibly suggesting coffee.....but honestly I want to be pursued. Confused douche response. he's a tool. pass
Purepony Posted December 24, 2018 Posted December 24, 2018 I agree he’s a tool Give me your number instead haha
chillii Posted December 24, 2018 Posted December 24, 2018 You’re a woman? Leave it. Yep , agreed. Although l realize most people round here don't seem to understand that concept. PS , yeah l thought that was a pathetic response too.
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