ericw899 Posted December 22, 2018 Posted December 22, 2018 So anyone who follows my posts on here know I have very bad luck with women. However last night I finally had something good happen. If you remember last weekend I was supposed to go out with a girl but she lost her phone & was involved in a bar fight. I decided to be persistent & plan a date for tonight which actually came together. Honestly it was the greatest first date of my life. I picked her up from her house & we went to a local restaurant. The whole time the conversation was very engaging, never awkward & she seemed genuinely interested. We moved over to the bar portion & we got some drinks & were more physical & I pulled her in & she looked up at me & we kissed. Everything really was amazing. I drove her home we kissed again & said goodnight. She even texted me after saying she wish the night didn’t end. So I need advice because I’ve never had a successful first date other than with my ex but we were so immature. How do I make sure not to blow it & how do I know the timing for the next date or even sex? Btw we’re both 22. Thanks! 1
smackie9 Posted December 22, 2018 Posted December 22, 2018 It's not a matter of blowing it, it's a matter of meeting the right person. Just stop over thinking it. Ask her out again and keep at it.
Lotsgoingon Posted December 22, 2018 Posted December 22, 2018 Just keep going ... A nice perspective is to not "live in" the expectation that things will feel magical every time you see this person. So you want to ease up on the hopes and just let things happen. Invite her to events you want to invite her to ... praise her for what you like about her ... No need to rush with making out and sex. Just have a blast of a time. Just know: sometimes you can experience an amazing first date and still you later learn you and the other person don't have the chemistry you had hoped for. I'm not saying that's the case here. Just putting one date into perspective. But ... great sign that she said she wished the date didn't end. OMG! ... That's fantastic .... I remember a great first date like that ... we couldn't say goodbye ... and we ended up making out in her car until like 4 in the morning ... and yes, this relationship had great energy ... So congrats. Enjoy!
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