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You're the "good enough girl". You're not his first choice. He told you that but you're stringing yourself along in case his first choice doesn't work out. Then he'll call you up and you'll hang out and you'll be good enough until he finds another first choice.

 

Block and delete this guy.

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This mentality in and of itself is chasing him.

 

You need to value yourself more than to think this way.

 

Go find a man that is into you just as you are.

That is consistent and doesn't blow hot and cold.

 

This guy is just not that into you.

 

This ^^^^^

 

And guess what? You're the woman. You shouldn't even be doing much chasing, if any at all. The guy is more into some other woman who he probably had more time in with or just so happened to click more with. You did nothing wrong. Not your fault at all. Bad timing and/or just some bad luck. I do give this guy a lot of credit for holding off on sleeping with you too.

 

As far as right now though it's time to move on. Guy has extremely low interest.

 

-Mac

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