[17] My ex girlfriend is really messing with me right now and I dont want any of it [

[fromheart]

I don't believe in the age excuse, 17 is old enough to know to not be nasty to another human being. I didn't date any girls like this when I was 17.

 

She's trash, unfortunately you're going to encounter a lot of people like this in life.

 

Good news, you can choose whether to have her in your life or not. Next time she's laughing at you, tell her to grow the F' up. Or whatever else comes to mind. As a believer in sexual equality, I always have told women what I think of them since I were a teenager.

[Josh20]

I don't believe in the age excuse, 17 is old enough to know to not be nasty to another human being. I didn't date any girls like this when I was 17.

 

She's trash, unfortunately you're going to encounter a lot of people like this in life.

 

Good news, you can choose whether to have her in your life or not. Next time she's laughing at you, tell her to grow the F' up. Or whatever else comes to mind. As a believer in sexual equality, I always have told women what I think of them since I were a teenager.

 

Yeah exactly 17 is old enough for this sh*t behaviour like its been like this for a while and with all honesty the only reason I didnt approach them is because If I did it would end with a huge argument and I cant afford that as I got told to avoid students because I have my apprenticeship in that college which I love and I;m not about to lose it to 2 losers retaking their exams at 17, I can't be bothered to waste my time and energy on them.. I'll let them have a laugh until one day she realises that all she was doing just made her look like an absolute a**hole.

[Giraffe-A]

She’s not getting it her way so now she’s trying to tear you down. Breaking up with you is probably the best thing she could have done for you. Her giggles mean nothing. Dont give her any importance.

[Josh20]

She’s not getting it her way so now she’s trying to tear you down. Breaking up with you is probably the best thing she could have done for you. Her giggles mean nothing. Dont give her any importance.

 

She showed me who she really is so i'm doing my best to stay way, in fact she made a better person to say the least, Thanks to her I actually woke up and started looking for really good apprenticeships which I got and I'm happy i got it and it really put me in a better position mentally, but what do you mean she's not getting it her way?

[Giraffe-A]

She showed me who she really is so i'm doing my best to stay way, in fact she made a better person to say the least, Thanks to her I actually woke up and started looking for really good apprenticeships which I got and I'm happy i got it and it really put me in a better position mentally, but what do you mean she's not getting it her way?

When a guy doesn’t feel romance for a girl, she may get strung along for sex.

When a girl doesn’t feel romance for a guy, he gets gets friendzoned. Being friendzoned has built up a stigma to it, but generally women value friendships a lot. What a better person to be friends with than someone whom she knows still likes her. She gets the ego boost, masculine support, a shoulder to cry on and all that Mickey Mouse club stuff.

 

You rejected this position and she is hurt. An otherwise mature woman would be more clear about the breakup.. “hey, I don’t have those type of feelings for you. Friendship is all I can provide.” Or “I feel so terrible I hurt you and broke it off with you. After spending time apart, I realized You are what I want.”

 

Get your life right first. It’s good to hear you have turned this into such a positive. Don’t stop.

[Josh20]

When a guy doesn’t feel romance for a girl, she may get strung along for sex.

When a girl doesn’t feel romance for a guy, he gets gets friendzoned. Being friendzoned has built up a stigma to it, but generally women value friendships a lot. What a better person to be friends with than someone whom she knows still likes her. She gets the ego boost, masculine support, a shoulder to cry on and all that Mickey Mouse club stuff.

 

You rejected this position and she is hurt. An otherwise mature woman would be more clear about the breakup.. “hey, I don’t have those type of feelings for you. Friendship is all I can provide.” Or “I feel so terrible I hurt you and broke it off with you. After spending time apart, I realized You are what I want.”

 

Get your life right first. It’s good to hear you have turned this into such a positive. Don’t stop.

 

Damn, but she didnt make up for it tho.. When she asked to be friends I said I dont mind but then 2 days later I said that I cant be friends that its best to move on and she wrote ''I dont want to lose you as a friend'' So I was like well sorry it has to happen, then she asked why and I said I dont need to be in my feeling again... To which she replied I want you as a friend to which I said ok, but few days later I messaged her and told her I dont want to be friends and its best if she just moves on to which she replied with ''Okay'' And we removed each other, weird enough she would still message me on instagram or facebook and then I remember I went to have dinner with some girl and I posted her on my instagm story which she saw and later that day unfollowed me lol... and I cant quite remember the rest but we didnt talk since then I don't think... And now it's come to this lol

 

She's also been dating this guy she left me for longer than me and her have been dating just thought I'd put that out there

Edited December 24, 2018 by Josh20