SocialButterfly Posted December 17, 2018 Posted December 17, 2018 Out of the many dogs, it had to the one I'm afraid of the most and never completely got over my fear: - Rottweilers He owns a quite medium-large female Rottweiler. Even though it hasn't done anything other than panting and sticking out her tongue or putting her head as if to pet her, the size, its assertive, strong personality and overall appearances can be a bit intimidating for a just 5'2 and 115 Ibs woman. I'm slowly getting used to her but those are scary breeds.
smackie9 Posted December 17, 2018 Posted December 17, 2018 The females are very protective, but are sweet. Once she gets used to you, she will accept you as part of her pack. Assertive to be loved is more like it. lol A friend of mine has two and they are like two big pups. 2
preraph Posted December 17, 2018 Posted December 17, 2018 Dogs pick up on fear and it just makes them nervous. There's a saying: Dogs bite fear. This dog and the breed, there's nothing wrong with them. They're big teddy bears, but being afraid of a dog and them sensing it can get you into trouble. I hope you relax about it soon. 1
Gaeta Posted December 18, 2018 Posted December 18, 2018 Depends how your boyfriend raised her. I would not trust a Rott that was left chained outside. I would have no problem trusting a Rott that was raised as a family pet. My brother raised his 3 kids with a Rott and he was a very gentle dog. 2
d0nnivain Posted December 18, 2018 Posted December 18, 2018 If you are uncomfortable, you are uncomfortable. Do recognize that the dog & the BF are a package. If you are going to stick around you will need to deal with the dog. 1
Happy Lemming Posted December 18, 2018 Posted December 18, 2018 Bring treats. ^^^^ THIS!! I dated this woman that had a German Shepherd that flunked out of the K-9 Police academy. Apparently the dog was too high strung to be a police dog. Initially the dog didn't like me, but I won her over with treats. The dog and I had similar sleep patterns (early riser) as the owner liked to sleep in. So I'd take the dog for many early morning walks, we got to be good friends. 1
Highndry Posted December 18, 2018 Posted December 18, 2018 You're a petite gal, so I don't think it's unusual to be afraid of a dog that's almost as big as you. Start bringing that goofy pooch a biscuit - EVERY single time you go there. She will be your new best buddy before long.
elaine567 Posted December 18, 2018 Posted December 18, 2018 it hasn't done anything other than panting and sticking out her tongue or putting her head as if to pet her, Sounds like a biscuit is not needed here... Big dogs are often big softies as few can handle a big aggressive dog so the bad ones tend to be put down or their owners keep them well out of the way of strangers. Small dogs on the other hand can be a nightmare for biting people. My dog groomer says she is regularly bitten by small "cute" dogs.
Lorenza Posted December 18, 2018 Posted December 18, 2018 I'm also afraid of big dogs, due to being mauled by a German Shepherd in my childhood (which belonged to my best friend and knew me his whole life). I do believe that a lot depends on upbringing, but to me, dogs always has a danger and unpredictability factor, so I completely understand you, OP. Unfortunately, no advice from me except for find a guy with a cat instead
brigit87 Posted December 18, 2018 Posted December 18, 2018 Out of the many dogs, it had to the one I'm afraid of the most and never completely got over my fear: - Rottweilers He owns a quite medium-large female Rottweiler. Even though it hasn't done anything other than panting and sticking out her tongue or putting her head as if to pet her, the size, its assertive, strong personality and overall appearances can be a bit intimidating for a just 5'2 and 115 Ibs woman. I'm slowly getting used to her but those are scary breeds. She sounds like a sweet dog.
alphamale Posted December 18, 2018 Posted December 18, 2018 rotweilers are great dogs if raised correctly. you shouldn't have anything to worry about, just treat it like any other pup
alphamale Posted December 18, 2018 Posted December 18, 2018 Unfortunately, no advice from me except for find a guy with a cat instead HAhahA, I've met some pretty scary cats in my time 1
Happy Lemming Posted December 18, 2018 Posted December 18, 2018 (edited) HAhahA, I've met some pretty scary cats in my time Same here... Dated one woman that had this nasty cat. SOB had the sharpest claws I had ever seen. Every time it saw me it would hiss and try to scratch me. I never did anything to this cat, but it just didn't like me. I remember one night, we were staying at her place and I needed to go to the bathroom in the middle of the night. When I entered the bathroom the cat was sitting on the closed toilet seat, when he saw me he tried to take a swipe at my manhood with those claws. I quickly retreated and pissed in her kitchen sink. No way, was I going to try to move that cat or fight for the bathroom. The cat won that battle, for sure!! Edited December 18, 2018 by Happy Lemming spelling
alphamale Posted December 19, 2018 Posted December 19, 2018 Same here... Dated one woman that had this nasty cat. SOB had the sharpest claws I had ever seen. Every time it saw me it would hiss and try to scratch me. I never did anything to this cat, but it just didn't like me. I remember one night, we were staying at her place and I needed to go to the bathroom in the middle of the night. When I entered the bathroom the cat was sitting on the closed toilet seat, when he saw me he tried to take a swipe at my manhood with those claws. I quickly retreated and pissed in her kitchen sink. No way, was I going to try to move that cat or fight for the bathroom. The cat won that battle, for sure!! an exes cat didn't like men
Gretchen12 Posted December 19, 2018 Posted December 19, 2018 Sounds like a biscuit is not needed here... Dog may beg to differ. 5
preraph Posted December 19, 2018 Posted December 19, 2018 I agree she should always take a treat for the dog. If you've ever watched Cesar Milan, you know that dogs pick up on nervous energy, so b-r-e-a-t-h-e and try not to let your heart be racing. They can actually sense that. You know, I have a little dog who used to have stress seizures and is afraid of everyone and when we go to the vet, the vet told me when she's on the table and put my hand on her, her pulse actually drops down. They can sense a lot of stuff. Honestly, have a talk about how you're nervous with the dog owner and just let him decide if you should bring treats and make an effort to relax and befriend the dog. It would be a great opportunity for you to begin relaxing around dogs if you get used to this big bear. 1
Highndry Posted December 19, 2018 Posted December 19, 2018 Sounds like a biscuit is not needed here... Dog may beg to differ. Haha, exactly! Biscuits are ALWAYS needed and welcome! (Brought to you by the International Alliance of Fur Babies) 2
Author SocialButterfly Posted December 19, 2018 Author Posted December 19, 2018 Depends how your boyfriend raised her. I would not trust a Rott that was left chained outside. I would have no problem trusting a Rott that was raised as a family pet. My brother raised his 3 kids with a Rott and he was a very gentle dog.From what I know she's a family dog. His relatives, parents and small cousins stop by every month. 1
Author SocialButterfly Posted December 19, 2018 Author Posted December 19, 2018 He's not my bf but we've been hanging out often during these two months. We're thinking of making it official soon though so yes I'm going to get used to her. I was impressed by her sweetness to be honest. I've never gotten that close to a Rottweiler before, much less pet it. Like suggested, I'll bring biscuits on my next visit. 1
Author SocialButterfly Posted December 19, 2018 Author Posted December 19, 2018 I'm also afraid of big dogs, due to being mauled by a German Shepherd in my childhood (which belonged to my best friend and knew me his whole life). I do believe that a lot depends on upbringing, but to me, dogs always has a danger and unpredictability factor, so I completely understand you, OP. Unfortunately, no advice from me except for find a guy with a cat instead Sorry to hear what happened to you. The difference is unlike you, I really have no reason why I'm taking it slowly with this particular breed (never been bitten ever by any dog) other than it's appearances, how some movies display it and reading the statistics about a couple deaths caused by them. Same here... Dated one woman that had this nasty cat. SOB had the sharpest claws I had ever seen. Every time it saw me it would hiss and try to scratch me. I never did anything to this cat, but it just didn't like me. I remember one night, we were staying at her place and I needed to go to the bathroom in the middle of the night. When I entered the bathroom the cat was sitting on the closed toilet seat, when he saw me he tried to take a swipe at my manhood with those claws. I quickly retreated and pissed in her kitchen sink. No way, was I going to try to move that cat or fight for the bathroom. The cat won that battle, for sure!!Wow that was a nasty cat. Ouch
Rocker71 Posted December 19, 2018 Posted December 19, 2018 (edited) I love my dogs. They are like my children. Edited December 19, 2018 by Rocker71 Wrong thread.
preraph Posted December 19, 2018 Posted December 19, 2018 Same here... Dated one woman that had this nasty cat. SOB had the sharpest claws I had ever seen. Every time it saw me it would hiss and try to scratch me. I never did anything to this cat, but it just didn't like me. I remember one night, we were staying at her place and I needed to go to the bathroom in the middle of the night. When I entered the bathroom the cat was sitting on the closed toilet seat, when he saw me he tried to take a swipe at my manhood with those claws. I quickly retreated and pissed in her kitchen sink. No way, was I going to try to move that cat or fight for the bathroom. The cat won that battle, for sure!! That cat didn't want you trying to hog its sleeping area! Ouch. It is much more likely to be scratched or bitten by a cat than a dog. I have had countless kitty wounds, especially since I teased them! 1
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