fajberman2 Posted December 17, 2018 Posted December 17, 2018 Okay so long story short, this girl broke up with me 2-3 months ago over a petty thing, apparently because we didn't talk for 2 days but anyway I don't want to go into detail about our relationship( we dated 2 months). So the problem is I still love this girl, the worst thing is I want to move on but I started my apprenticeship at the same college as her... 2 weeks ago her best friend messaged me asking akwards questions like: Have you had sex with anyone sine your ex?, Are you talking to anyone? stuff like that and then she brought my ex into this saying '' I don't see your ex much because she has a boyfrined'' to which I simply replied ''I wish her all the best with her boyfriend'' and her friend replied with ''He's cute''... Like wtf I don't care... Now today I saw her walking with some guy I didn't really care in fact I found it quite funny, and then her friend from class which seems to be overly friendly, randomly told my friend's girlfriend that my ex has a boyfriend which she told me, and I'm like ffs I don't care, let me move on I dont want her life news, I cut her off, we don't talk... I'm a changed man I have a future and want to focus on my apprenticeship which I'm very satisfied with, Why bother me with my ex??? She's a failure she's talks to some ugly lowlifes, which is quite sad because I was really going to take care of her... But I don't care I don't judge. The main point is why do I keep hearing her relationship news because I frankly could careless, I'm sick of hearing it, she left me and I agreed to the breakup, she wanted to be friends I declined end of story... I ignore her no matter what, I don't talk to her, I don't look at her, its over i want to move on but its really hard man and I don't know what else I can do... tl;dr: Also to note when she's with her female friend she always stares and laughs at me (it happened twice)
d0nnivain Posted December 17, 2018 Posted December 17, 2018 Your EX's friend who is blabbing all this stuff to you is immature. Just ignore her. Hold your head high & act like you don't care.
Author fajberman2 Posted December 17, 2018 Author Posted December 17, 2018 Your EX's friend who is blabbing all this stuff to you is immature. Just ignore her. Hold your head high & act like you don't care. I'm trying to man but it gets to me sometimes, like right now it really sadens me that I have to hear that my ex has a boyfriend like why? I dont need to know that.
preraph Posted December 17, 2018 Posted December 17, 2018 Your ex's gf is a little jerk. But the ex probably put her up to it. Just do NOT give her any information. If she asks anything you don't want to answer, just tell her, Why do you think it's okay to ask me that? or just roll your eyes and ignore her. Immature types playing games trying to bother you. So yes, just act like you can't be bothered and do not care and look happy or amused and not sad or angry. Be sure you blocked all these people on social media.
Author fajberman2 Posted December 17, 2018 Author Posted December 17, 2018 Your ex's gf is a little jerk. But the ex probably put her up to it. Just do NOT give her any information. If she asks anything you don't want to answer, just tell her, Why do you think it's okay to ask me that? or just roll your eyes and ignore her. Immature types playing games trying to bother you. So yes, just act like you can't be bothered and do not care and look happy or amused and not sad or angry. Be sure you blocked all these people on social media. I haven't blocked her best friend because we haven't talked for around 3 weeks and I dont think they're even friends anymore, I just simply dont want to know anything about my ex or whats going on with her... All these news and drama is too much for me and I dont want to hear it but yet I'm paranoid that someone will bring her up again ugh...
smackie9 Posted December 17, 2018 Posted December 17, 2018 This is why you shouldn't date someone in your social circle, that you go to school with or work with. Hearing about that crap is inevitable. The only thing you can do is avoid those involved or tell them it doesn't apply too you anymore so STFU.
d0nnivain Posted December 17, 2018 Posted December 17, 2018 Let it go in one ear & out the other. If you can't date people you go to college with the pool of available people is too small.
Author fajberman2 Posted December 17, 2018 Author Posted December 17, 2018 This is why you shouldn't date someone in your social circle, that you go to school with or work with. Hearing about that crap is inevitable. The only thing you can do is avoid those involved or tell them it doesn't apply too you anymore so STFU. The thing is when she dumped me I said look whatever makes you happy but I don't want us to end on bad terms, so I can assure you we didnt end on bad terms, and I don't know whats the motive behind her behaviour, she stares and laughs, just overly immature and its missleading as she's the dumper lol
preraph Posted December 17, 2018 Posted December 17, 2018 I haven't blocked her best friend because we haven't talked for around 3 weeks and I dont think they're even friends anymore, I just simply dont want to know anything about my ex or whats going on with her... All these news and drama is too much for me and I dont want to hear it but yet I'm paranoid that someone will bring her up again ugh... Yes! That's why you make it impossible for them to see you or contact you. Then you get some peace and move on.
smackie9 Posted December 17, 2018 Posted December 17, 2018 She's butt hurt over the fact you rejected her request to be friends. It stumped her ego. I suspect she's had exes that stayed in her orbit. You didn't and she's not used to that.
Author fajberman2 Posted December 17, 2018 Author Posted December 17, 2018 She's butt hurt over the fact you rejected her request to be friends. It stumped her ego. I suspect she's had exes that stayed in her orbit. You didn't and she's not used to that. Her last ex of 10 months begged and pleaded, she was his first so was mine, so she thought I'd beg and plead but I'm not a fool to do that, so Im guessing she doesn't like that? Its weird because its been over 2 month so why cant she just let it go? I mean since her friend from class said she has a boyfriend cant she just focus on him instead of being a petty child to me?
Author fajberman2 Posted December 17, 2018 Author Posted December 17, 2018 Yes! That's why you make it impossible for them to see you or contact you. Then you get some peace and move on. Yeah I should you're right
Author fajberman2 Posted December 17, 2018 Author Posted December 17, 2018 Good thing you broke up eh? I guess i still miss her deeply tho. I'd be a much happier man if I knew that she moved on completely and just wasnt being a bi*ch to me
smackie9 Posted December 17, 2018 Posted December 17, 2018 I guess i still miss her deeply tho. I'd be a much happier man if I knew that she moved on completely and just wasnt being a bi*ch to me Maybe she is acting this way so her BF can see there are no feelings there.
TheFinalWord Posted December 18, 2018 Posted December 18, 2018 Her friend may have been into you. She was trying to get you jealous so you'd talk to her. Who knows if she even has a bf. Either way, they sound really immature. I wouldn't respond to any of her messages. 1
Author fajberman2 Posted December 18, 2018 Author Posted December 18, 2018 Maybe she is acting this way so her BF can see there are no feelings there. But she's never with her bf, I never saw her with one, noone that I know of, the only time I saw with a guy was yesterday and I don't think that her boyfriend.. Why prove anything to her BF if she's truly happy lol
Author fajberman2 Posted December 18, 2018 Author Posted December 18, 2018 Her friend may have been into you. She was trying to get you jealous so you'd talk to her. Who knows if she even has a bf. Either way, they sound really immature. I wouldn't respond to any of her messages. naa her friend is most definately not into me, I'm not even her type and she dated my bese friend we also never talk we havent spoke since, me and her friend arent even friends tbh... I don't even know if she has a boyfriend to be honsest and who knows? but most imporatanty who cares? I just want her to stop being petty, childish and weird.
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