Whatcomewhatmay Posted December 14, 2018 Share Posted December 14, 2018 She finally admitted it to me. My brother started to flirt with my girlfriend and kissed her. She then slept with him in his bed. She cheated for 4 months, and then dumped me for him. Since I live at home , I see her often, but she sleeps with him. What the **** do I do? Need to vent and get over this. I got so angry at my brother I started hitting him everywhere I could and now I try to avoid him. Link to post Share on other sites
Wallysbears Posted December 14, 2018 Share Posted December 14, 2018 You thank your lucky stars that you're not with that girl anymore. She sounds like she's got very little morals. And I don't know what to say about your brother. I'm sure they'll break up soon enough. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Whatcomewhatmay Posted December 14, 2018 Author Share Posted December 14, 2018 You thank your lucky stars that you're not with that girl anymore. She sounds like she's got very little morals. And I don't know what to say about your brother. I'm sure they'll break up soon enough. My mom admitted to me that she would hear them having sex while I slept at night as his bedroom was on the other side of hers When I asked her why she didnt say anything she said because we were just young and it would be better fir ne to find out in my own. I was still livid Link to post Share on other sites
Sarah_Smiles Posted December 14, 2018 Share Posted December 14, 2018 Sounds like the Paul bros, groans. Obviously, your brother has some kind of competitive thing in his mind regarding you, but most brothers WILL NOT kiss, date or F their brother's girlfriend. No boundaries by either of them. He is as bad as her, I'd ignore them both. Link to post Share on other sites
HumanMachine Posted December 14, 2018 Share Posted December 14, 2018 Be grateful to the girl. Never talk to your brother again. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Whatcomewhatmay Posted December 14, 2018 Author Share Posted December 14, 2018 Sounds like the Paul bros, groans. Obviously, your brother has some kind of competitive thing in his mind regarding you, but most brothers WILL NOT kiss, date or F their brother's girlfriend. No boundaries by either of them. He is as bad as her, I'd ignore them both. My mom told me that they woukd have sex at nitecwhen I sloet Link to post Share on other sites
srt92 Posted December 14, 2018 Share Posted December 14, 2018 Go kick your brothers ass. Dudes a snake behind your back. Your brother should have told you this the moment she layed eyes on him. Shame on him. Of all the other women in this world, he chooses your ex girlfreind. Link to post Share on other sites
Normm Posted December 14, 2018 Share Posted December 14, 2018 This will make the holidays rough. Don't know how you made it through Thanksgiving dinner in one piece. Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted December 14, 2018 Share Posted December 14, 2018 So sorry this happened to you. That girl is a low life who will have sex with anything. If I were your mom she wouldn't be allowed in my house anymore and I would have gone in your brother's room and thrown her butt right out into the street with the rest of the trash. Your brother should be ashamed of himself, what he can't get his own piece of tail. You poor thing. Just breathe. Link to post Share on other sites
Happy Lemming Posted December 14, 2018 Share Posted December 14, 2018 Time to move out... Go find your own place away from this mess. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Sarah_Smiles Posted December 14, 2018 Share Posted December 14, 2018 My mom told me that they woukd have sex at nitecwhen I sloet That sucks! What are your and your brother's ages? Maybe your mom could tell him not to bring her home anymore, pretty disrespectful to you on all fronts, eeks. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Whatcomewhatmay Posted December 14, 2018 Author Share Posted December 14, 2018 That sucks! What are your and your brother's ages? Maybe your mom could tell him not to bring her home anymore, pretty disrespectful to you on all fronts, eeks. Me 18 Berother 17 Gf 18 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Whatcomewhatmay Posted December 14, 2018 Author Share Posted December 14, 2018 I just feel like she protected him Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted December 14, 2018 Share Posted December 14, 2018 Your brother had it coming. What a dick move. Glad you pummeled him. But now, you need to calm down and move on. Realize if she had any ethics, she wouldn't have gone along with it either, so consider it "bullet dodged." Do not let hate consume you. It only hurts the one who's hating, not the uncaring narcissistic jerk it's aimed at. So you beat him up, and now just move on and avoid ever bringing any women around him again, including any future wife. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Whatcomewhatmay Posted December 14, 2018 Author Share Posted December 14, 2018 Your brother had it coming. What a dick move. Glad you pummeled him. But now, you need to calm down and move on. Realize if she had any ethics, she wouldn't have gone along with it either, so consider it "bullet dodged." Do not let hate consume you. It only hurts the one who's hating, not the uncaring narcissistic jerk it's aimed at. So you beat him up, and now just move on and avoid ever bringing any women around him again, including any future wife. Yes that is true 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Jamess1 Posted December 15, 2018 Share Posted December 15, 2018 You have just experienced a very important lesson about women and relationships at a young age other men are forced to experience when they are already married. What is it about your brother that got your girl-friend in his bed. Think about it, all the things he did e.g flirting. Your brother wasn't even serious about all this and yet got your gf in his bed. What have you learnt about women from your experience ? Look how easy it was for her to cheat on you. You had two different perceptions of the same thing. Never hit or hate your brother over a girl, a sign that you were over invested on a trivial thing, but learn from all this. I have cheated with married women before, the cheated husband is the poor guy investing so much, going to for marriage counseling, making sacrifices, emotionally invested, probably suicidal, probably gets denied sex at home:I have a headache, but for me it was just some easy flirting,teasing and having fun, and yet his wife has steamy sex with me, lies to him just to cheat with me..I don't even really care, I am not the one married. Don't be the frustrated one when it comes to your associations with women, now you see that women can easily cheat, and not becoz of their feelings like people say. And how it was a minor issue to her but yet a big deal to you.. Be an alpha and have fun, have a 3 some with your brother etc Get another gf . . Link to post Share on other sites
Just_Another_Breakup Posted December 15, 2018 Share Posted December 15, 2018 Dude, I literally cannot believe that your own mom would allow this in the house. Would you be cool with your kids doing that to each other? He needs to be spoken to, and she needs to not come over anymore. Man, you're not alone in thinking that this is terrible. Your feelings matter bro, they matter. I'm going through some **** right now, but not like this, this is not only your partner but your family. You need to be strong for you my man, that's all I can say. I hope this gets easier for you dude, i really do. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Whatcomewhatmay Posted December 15, 2018 Author Share Posted December 15, 2018 Dude, I literally cannot believe that your own mom would allow this in the house. Would you be cool with your kids doing that to each other? He needs to be spoken to, and she needs to not come over anymore. Man, you're not alone in thinking that this is terrible. Your feelings matter bro, they matter. I'm going through some **** right now, but not like this, this is not only your partner but your family. You need to be strong for you my man, that's all I can say. I hope this gets easier for you dude, i really do. Can I message u ?? Link to post Share on other sites
Normm Posted December 17, 2018 Share Posted December 17, 2018 Can I message u ?? Nope. ........ Link to post Share on other sites
Author Whatcomewhatmay Posted December 20, 2018 Author Share Posted December 20, 2018 Nope. ........ It was about my post but ok Link to post Share on other sites
Normm Posted December 20, 2018 Share Posted December 20, 2018 You asked if you could message him. You can't. I'm simply stating the fact. Link to post Share on other sites
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