DashRavens Posted December 13, 2018 Posted December 13, 2018 My boyfriend and I broke up because I thought I was only hurting him. Later a good friend of mine dated him and broke his heart. I found out that she had done this before my boyfriend and I started dating(Although I had known that they were in a relationship before). I now have tried talking to him and he says he still loves me but is not ready for a relationship as he is scared of getting hurt again. That friend now hates my guts and has taken some friends of mine away. I still love him but I don't know if I should try forgetting about him or just let him take his time. I have tried forgetting about him but in the end, it has not worked and I've been waiting almost a year. I don't know what to do anymore, this is why I need you guy's help.
Garcon1986 Posted December 13, 2018 Posted December 13, 2018 Welcome to LS. I would suggest a couple of things - - in general you should not let woman-woman catty fighting rule your life. Nobody is allowed to get you down without your explicit permission. Adults don't need that rubbish in their lives. This type of stuff is one thing men really despise about women. - if a guy says he is scared of being hurt again you should leave him alone to date others, unless he can show that he is willing to live with that eternal risk in dating. We all take the risk of being hurt in dating - it's never pain free. - if you really love him, ask yourself - what does he bring to the table? What makes him so awesome? If you start dating him again, what's preventing him from seeing other women behind your back just like the last time?
Mr. Lucky Posted December 13, 2018 Posted December 13, 2018 My boyfriend and I broke up because I thought I was only hurting him. What exactly does this mean? Mr. Lucky 1
Author DashRavens Posted December 14, 2018 Author Posted December 14, 2018 One of my friends had said that I was selfish and then I thought that I wasn't putting my boyfriend first.
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