ieele Posted December 13, 2018 Posted December 13, 2018 I'm hoping by confirming it i can properly move on. it's been 5 months since we broke up and about a month ago we reconnected on snapchat and had a nice hour chat. a week later she pretty much came and visited me because she knew where i would be at. At the time i was with friends and just having myself a good time. After she saw me her snap chat exploded with selfies and hanging out with her friends. Today she her story included a video of some dude she was in a car with and the 2 of them were just laughing for whatever reason. Have she moved on? How do i move on myself because this really brought me down.
preraph Posted December 13, 2018 Posted December 13, 2018 She kind of sounds like she just is competing with you to see who is having the best time. Now, that does mean they think about you, but it doesn't mean they want back together necessarily. I always want to look like I'm living the life after a hurtful break. Kind of sounds like she saw you having fun and wanted you to see her having fun. I'm assuming she broke up with you and not the other way around? If so, she's just being competitive. If you broke off with her, then it's up to you to make up. If she broke up with you, the ball is in her court. I mean, you can see if she wants to hang again, but I have to caution you that women (I'm one) are pretty darn comfortable being "just friends" with their exes as a rule. So if you are going to hang and you are still wanting to get back together and it was you who broke up with her or cheated or whatever then you have to bring it up again and see. But if it was her breaking it off and she's done but just being friends, it's up to her to show more than that.
Simple Logic Posted December 13, 2018 Posted December 13, 2018 I'm hoping by confirming it i can properly move on. it's been 5 months since we broke up and about a month ago we reconnected on snapchat and had a nice hour chat. a week later she pretty much came and visited me because she knew where i would be at. At the time i was with friends and just having myself a good time. After she saw me her snap chat exploded with selfies and hanging out with her friends. Today she her story included a video of some dude she was in a car with and the 2 of them were just laughing for whatever reason. Have she moved on? How do i move on myself because this really brought me down. Sounds to me like she was trying to reconnect and you ignored her.
ExpatInItaly Posted December 13, 2018 Posted December 13, 2018 I think you read way too much into her social media.
d0nnivain Posted December 13, 2018 Posted December 13, 2018 ieele Perhaps she wants to be platonic friends. If you want reconciliation it's not going to happen so you need to remove yourself from her orbit including on social media.
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