ElaineB Posted September 14, 2005 Posted September 14, 2005 Hi Everyone, I wrote for the first time on these boards about my situation in this thread: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t70514/ It's now been 5 days since his initial contact with me and still no response. I'm seriously thinking about calling him tonight and politely letting him know how much pain his contacting me and then not responding has brought back to me and ask him to just stay out of my life. Am I leaping to far ahead? What are the odds that he will contact me again...or is hope gone if he hasn't by now? Please let me know what you think...thank you...
francis Posted September 14, 2005 Posted September 14, 2005 the answer is not to turn to him for explanations and answers. the answer, if you really dont want to hear from him again is change your email account, block him, delete him. there are ways and means. don't give him a sob story of how much he hurt you, he's not gonna want to hear that. you'll sound desperate, needy, as if all you do is think of him. the best thing you can do is to forget about him rather than delude yourself that there is hope of a reconciliation. dont contact him, if he wants a reconciliation, its his responsibility and his decision. you have no control over that.
Candy Cane Posted September 15, 2005 Posted September 15, 2005 Hi Everyone, I wrote for the first time on these boards about my situation in this thread: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t70514/ It's now been 5 days since his initial contact with me and still no response. I'm seriously thinking about calling him tonight and politely letting him know how much pain his contacting me and then not responding has brought back to me and ask him to just stay out of my life. Am I leaping to far ahead? What are the odds that he will contact me again...or is hope gone if he hasn't by now? Please let me know what you think...thank you... NOOOOOOOOOO!!! For the love of GOD, I'm begging you not to do this. You need to give some things time...and you need to have some faith. I read your other post. Don't screw things up by calling. He made contact, you responded perfectly. Let things lie for a spell.
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