Sm12345 Posted December 9, 2018 Posted December 9, 2018 (edited) So I [37m] went out for drinks with a woman [31F] I’ve been talking to for a few days off Bumble, and things were going really well. And after the drinks she asked if I wanted to come back to her place. But halfway there she decided she wasn’t “feeling well.” Which is ok, but also a little strange. So then she asked if she could give me a ride home, and ok, sure. Then she kissed me, but she could tell I was a bit disappointed and now things are meh. When I kissed her she said “Is that all?” She asked me to text her later, but things feel really awkward. Can I recover from this or should I just unmatch and move on?unmatch Edited December 9, 2018 by Sm12345
Happy Lemming Posted December 9, 2018 Posted December 9, 2018 Personally, I won't date a "yes/no" woman... First she wants to have sex, then she doesn't, then it seems she is sending you signals that she does... Nope, too easy to face "Rape" charges from someone that does the "yes/no" thing. That "awkward" feeling is the little voice in your head warning you that dating her isn't a good idea. NEXT!!
Ronni_W Posted December 9, 2018 Posted December 9, 2018 or should I just unmatch and move on?Yep, I would 'unmatch'...and forget as quickly as possible! Impossible to say for sure, but it sounds like this woman has been following one of those crazy 'dating experts' and actually buying her or his BS. As a woman, that is just weird behaviour and would NOT happen if I was interested in the guy. (What you experienced, though, WOULD happen, if I was totally not interested in the guy, and just trying to get rid of him as quickly as possible, without being honest and direct.) I'm constantly amazed at what women will accept and do as provocative or enticing 'dating' behaviour. Honestly...regardless of gender, age or creed...just follow your own natural instincts.
Andy_K Posted December 9, 2018 Posted December 9, 2018 So I [37m] went out for drinks with a woman [31F] I’ve been talking to for a few days off Bumble, and things were going really well. And after the drinks she asked if I wanted to come back to her place. But halfway there she decided she wasn’t “feeling well.” She wasn't feeling ill. She starts feeling like she's been too 'easy' by inviting you home. Which is ok, but also a little strange. So then she asked if she could give me a ride home, and ok, sure. Then she kissed me, but she could tell I was a bit disappointed and now things are meh. When I kissed her she said “Is that all?” It was your turn to escalate or invite her him. To at least make it obvious you're interested in taking things further, but without being pushy or rude of course. "Are you still feeling unwell? Are you sure you don't want to come in for a coffee before you go?"
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