wantslove92 Posted December 8, 2018 Share Posted December 8, 2018 There's this guy from the gym who asked me to go to his house this sunday. We have been texting each other everyday and have been on two dates. He took me out for dinner for the first one and then the second date was at the movies. We see each other almost everyday at the gym. He texts me good morning and good night everyday. It's been almost a month of me knowing him. Is it a good time to say yes to him about him inviting me to his house? Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted December 8, 2018 Share Posted December 8, 2018 Is it a good time to say yes? Well that depends on what concerns you have. Do you want to go to his house? Link to post Share on other sites
Andy_K Posted December 8, 2018 Share Posted December 8, 2018 There isn't enough information here for anyone to give you any more than a guess. What is your goal? Going to his house means he will likely expect sex or at least significant physical escalation. If you're not ready for that and/or don't feel comfortable enough with him, then don't go. Are you concerned about his intentions? The only person who can figure out if he likes you more than just physically, and respects you, is you. If you think his intentions are good and you're comfortable with him, then go for it. If you have doubts, then hold back. Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted December 8, 2018 Share Posted December 8, 2018 If you go to his house he will infer that you are agreeing to have sex. Of course you always have the freedom to say no but you need to understand the implied Q & what answer your behavior implies. If you are ready to move this relationship to an intimate place, accept his invitation. If you are not, pick a different public venue for your date. Link to post Share on other sites
Cersei Posted December 8, 2018 Share Posted December 8, 2018 Only you can answer that question. But yes, he has sex in mind with you if he has invited you over. Any time I was ready with a new boyfriend the invitation for a home visit was put on the table. Before that any dates were out in the public. Link to post Share on other sites
smackie9 Posted December 8, 2018 Share Posted December 8, 2018 He wants sex. Tip: texting doesn't constitute as dating. IMO this guy is being cheap....2 dates in one month? pfffft. Tell him nope. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Simple Logic Posted December 8, 2018 Share Posted December 8, 2018 Only you know you comfort level. The fact you are kinda asking here says you are not quite comfortable with a home visit. Just be honest and tell him you are not comfortable with that yet. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Purepony Posted December 8, 2018 Share Posted December 8, 2018 He wants sex. Tip: texting doesn't constitute as dating. IMO this guy is being cheap....2 dates in one month? pfffft. Tell him nope. Girls like cheap guys no a days Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted December 8, 2018 Share Posted December 8, 2018 you should go on another date or two 2 Link to post Share on other sites
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