help!! How can I tell if he likes me the way I like him???

[terrysangel]

I have been really crushing on this guy I work with for the last three years....I can't bring myself to tell him because I think he is somewhat involved with someone else and besides, I am not a bold person. He use to come up to me and hug me and talk to me and paid special attention to me. I left to go to another office for about a year and didn't have any contact with him. The day I left, he came up to me and hugged me for the longest time and told me that he wished I didn't have to go. When I came back several months ago, his attitude toward me had changed. He no longer hugs me or pays special attention to me. He does talk to me when he has to. We only see each other about four hours out of every month...not very often at all. He almost seems to avoid me at times now. I made a mention several weeks ago (just casually) to another co-worker, but well within his earshot, that I was selling my home and moving. Well, my guy turned around pretty quickly and we had his undivided attention at that point. My friend says that she thinks he had feelings for me before I left and didn't want to acknowledge them because of his involvement with this other lady. Then, when I left, he delt with his feelings. When I came back, those feelings started to come back again and he was afraid so he has decided to limit his contact with me. Any advice will be very appreciated..........HELP!! I am really miserable over this.

[Merin]

IF he's involved with someone else then yeah he's unavailable... so first thing to do is find out for sure IF he is.

 

IF he isn't then instead of letting it eat you up, show your interest in him and see if it's returned...

 

IF he is involved with someone else then leave things alone...