PRW Posted December 8, 2018 Posted December 8, 2018 (* excluding virgins and the very young/inexperienced and the religious) That is a BIG exclusion. There are way more of those than you might think. Without giving too much personal info away, one of the areas I have formal training is the "religious" fields, although not the only fields,...I am very widely disbursed. That is why I never go into the religious related forums. I know how complex the realities are and how "in vain" a public forum about it would be. Generic "dating & relationships" is bad enough.
PRW Posted December 8, 2018 Posted December 8, 2018 I also think the man should initiate the first kiss and show his attraction but he should let the woman make the invitation to get to bed. Even with the kiss, I only will it I see clear indications from her that she is interested. Otherwise I won't even do that. 1
fred123 Posted December 8, 2018 Posted December 8, 2018 Im not sure i agree with most posters here. If she was into you or if you were ronaldo she would have slept with you by now and your behaviour would be irrelevant.
Gaeta Posted December 8, 2018 Posted December 8, 2018 Im not sure i agree with most posters here. If she was into you or if you were ronaldo she would have slept with you by now and your behaviour would be irrelevant. Says who? Can a woman not jump in bed with a man she likes? Sex doesn't run us the way it run most men. Why can't she take her time to get to know him? She's a stranger, he knows nothing of her, maybe she got tired of being dump after getting intimate too early so this time she's playing cool. Also, why does she have to break her plans with her friends to be with him? they had 3 dates, he's not a boyfriend, he's not 'super' special to her yet, no I would not change my plans with friends and family for a man I met 2 or 3 times, I'd find a spot for him in my agenda yes, change my plans with friends? no. 1
Saracena Posted December 9, 2018 Posted December 9, 2018 Im not sure i agree with most posters here. If she was into you or if you were ronaldo she would have slept with you by now and your behaviour would be irrelevant. While in some cases this is true, the above is also a common misconception particularly amongst men. I've seen it time and time again on here. I (or my friends) don't do casual sex and will only have sex when I'm ready regardless of how attracted I am to the guy. I actually like to *know* the person I'm sleeping with.... PS And I certainly wouldn't change this for Ronaldo! Not my type at all!
diddilybop Posted December 9, 2018 Posted December 9, 2018 Also, why does she have to break her plans with her friends to be with him? they had 3 dates, he's not a boyfriend, he's not 'super' special to her yet, no I would not change my plans with friends and family for a man I met 2 or 3 times, I'd find a spot for him in my agenda yes, change my plans with friends? no. AGREED. they've only been on a few dates, why does she "owe" him sex at this point? why does have to move her plans around a guy she barely knows? she prioritizes herself and her friends first, and there's nothing wrong that! even if they've been having a great time together so far, it's still early in the dating process, it's her life and she can choose how she wants to spend it. that also includes when she wants to have sex with a new person she's seeing.
Malin889 Posted December 9, 2018 Posted December 9, 2018 Im not sure i agree with most posters here. If she was into you or if you were ronaldo she would have slept with you by now and your behaviour would be irrelevant. Most women don’t sleep with a guy on date 3. Way too soon.
Malin889 Posted December 9, 2018 Posted December 9, 2018 AGREED. they've only been on a few dates, why does she "owe" him sex at this point? why does have to move her plans around a guy she barely knows? she prioritizes herself and her friends first, and there's nothing wrong that! even if they've been having a great time together so far, it's still early in the dating process, it's her life and she can choose how she wants to spend it. that also includes when she wants to have sex with a new person she's seeing. Right. She doesn’t owe him anything and absolutely should not change her plans for some guy she barely knows.
Dis Posted December 9, 2018 Posted December 9, 2018 Grey, the way you're dating is turning women off You need to listen, but after countless threads and pages upon pages of good advice, you continue on the way you always do yet you're surprised why you can't get what you want 1
JuneL Posted December 9, 2018 Posted December 9, 2018 While in some cases this is true, the above is also a common misconception particularly amongst men. I've seen it time and time again on here. I (or my friends) don't do casual sex and will only have sex when I'm ready regardless of how attracted I am to the guy. I actually like to *know* the person I'm sleeping with.... PS And I certainly wouldn't change this for Ronaldo! Not my type at all! I might make a small exception for Beckham. But I doubt if I would agree to go on a date with Ronaldo. Sorry guys :p
fred123 Posted December 9, 2018 Posted December 9, 2018 I might make a small exception for Beckham. But I doubt if I would agree to go on a date with Ronaldo. Sorry guys :p this proves my point. if a girl is into a guy they will sleep with then quicker. isnt there a possibility she isnt really into him? also the same posters on here are saying women dont need to have or owe a guy sex after 3 dates but yet would dump a guy if he hasnt kissed a girl after 2 or 3 dates. why the different rules for both sexes?
elaine567 Posted December 9, 2018 Posted December 9, 2018 this proves my point. if a girl is into a guy they will sleep with then quicker. isnt there a possibility she isnt really into him? also the same posters on here are saying women dont need to have or owe a guy sex after 3 dates but yet would dump a guy if he hasnt kissed a girl after 2 or 3 dates. why the different rules for both sexes? Rules are not really a good thing in dating as they ignore the fact people are individuals, what works for one person, may turn out to be disastrous when tried on another. Generic rules are used by the inexperienced or the clueless to provide a framework for them to follow as they gain experience.
Recommended Posts