Why is my ex being like this?

[KevinHart]

She certainly sounds it, you really don't need someone like that in your life. In all honesty, if my partner didn't talk to me for a couple of days, I wouldn't be happy (I wouldn't break up with them, but I'd question it). Were you often the one putting effort into the communication and was it usually you who started the conversations the two of you had while you weren't around each other? That was the case with me in my previous relationship and it had become one-sided. She probably wanted you to wish for her back, but she is acting immature. You will move on at some point, it just takes time, it takes longer for some than it does for others.

 

Before she ended it we were both putting effort it was definately not one sided thats why im so shocked... She would always text me ''hey babe'' in the morning everyday and I remember when I was on a holiday during summer (When we started talking) we would talk all day everyday and it was wonderful it even started to look like she was obsessed with me..

 

But at the end 2 days before she ended it she started getting distant and cold and it seemed really off and it came to the point where I had to make the effort to message her, and when I asked her whats wrong (This was 3 months ago) she said ''So listen, we haven't spoke for 2 days so the vibe kinda died''

 

To which I replied ''umm so are we done?''

 

And she replied with a cold ''Yeah''

[Rockdad]

Sounds so High School to me. Not a thing you can do about an immature irritant except ignore and stay clear of them whenever possible.

[AmyHershaw]

Before she ended it we were both putting effort it was definately not one sided thats why im so shocked... She would always text me ''hey babe'' in the morning everyday and I remember when I was on a holiday during summer (When we started talking) we would talk all day everyday and it was wonderful it even started to look like she was obsessed with me..

 

But at the end 2 days before she ended it she started getting distant and cold and it seemed really off and it came to the point where I had to make the effort to message her, and when I asked her whats wrong (This was 3 months ago) she said ''So listen, we haven't spoke for 2 days so the vibe kinda died''

 

To which I replied ''umm so are we done?''

 

And she replied with a cold ''Yeah''

 

She definitely doesn't sound like she's mature enough for a relationship. She could have ended the relationship in a more reasonable manner than distancing herself from you for no reason then telling you she doesn't want to be with you anymore. Be glad you aren't with her anymore, people like her aren't worth spending time on.

[fajberman2]

She definitely doesn't sound like she's mature enough for a relationship. She could have ended the relationship in a more reasonable manner than distancing herself from you for no reason then telling you she doesn't want to be with you anymore. Be glad you aren't with her anymore, people like her aren't worth spending time on.

 

She definately isn't and i feel happy for rejecting her friendship, its really sad that she's behaving this way ;/

[fajberman2]

Sounds so High School to me. Not a thing you can do about an immature irritant except ignore and stay clear of them whenever possible.

 

Yeah she's 17 (Nearly 18) I don't get the purpose of this, It would make more sense if I was the one behaving this way since she dumped me but the fact she's the who dumped me makes this really confusing.