Why is my ex being like this?

[KevinHart]

Why would my ex gf that dumped me bother? She stares at me and laughs at me for no reason like everytime I barely see her in public we didnt end on bad terms but she acts like I'm a stranger I havent done anything wrong like whats going on?

 

A little backstory on our relationship. DETAILS for the question

 

We dated 2 months but we saw each other pretty much everyday and she seemed really into me but then out of nowhere she went cold and broke up with me and when I asked her what the reason was she said this… “We didn’t speak for 2 days so the vibe kinda died’’

 

At that point I realized that she didnt take it serously so I won’t bother begging or anything I said ok and left it there… Then couple days later she started seeing some guy well I only saw him on her snapchat story but her friend said they never dated lol

 

That was about 3 months ago

 

after she broke up with me she came back 2 weeks later asking to be friends which I rejected (I’m not sure if she wanted to be pure friends because her face looked regretful).

 

Then we would still talk via text but we never met up or anything I was being quite cold with her I was really hurt by that, then I posted a girl on my instagram story I was having dinner with, which she saw and unfollowed me that day which is weird because she did the dumping wtf..

 

So I went no contact again and now its been 6–7 weeks but I dont really care becaues I’m the one taht told her to move on and stuff, then last thursday her best friend asked me how I am and stuff and then randomly asked me if I had sex with anyone since my ex and if i’m talking to anyone or seeing anyone, she also told me for no reason whatsoever that my ex has a boyfriend and she doesnt see my ex much which I dont know why her friendwould tell me that lol I never asked… I have a feeling my ex sent her to ask those because me and her friend barely even talk lol.

 

So yesterday I was walking to the college in which I have my apprenticeship, I waslking in with my friend and she saw me with some other friend of hers and she pulled a weird face and started laughing I dont know why, I didnt look funny or anything she just laughed lol…

 

same thing happened couple weeks ago… I was waiting for my friend at a bus stop and she was on the bus and she was just staring at me with her friend and she started laughing like idk why its really annoying whats her problem?

[Wallysbears]

She’s immature. Ignore her.

[KevinHart]

She’s immature. Ignore her.

 

She wont stop tho like its everytime I see her in public she does the same thing she makes it so awkward

[Wallysbears]

She wont stop tho like its everytime I see her in public she does the same thing she makes it so awkward

 

Then pretend you don’t see her. Engage with your friends or look at your phone or vary your routine so you don’t bump into her.

 

You can’t change her immature behavior. And she’s not worth the head space thinking about.

[Normm]

I dont really care

 

 

I don't believe you Kevin.

[KevinHart]

Then pretend you don’t see her. Engage with your friends or look at your phone or vary your routine so you don’t bump into her.

 

You can’t change her immature behavior. And she’s not worth the head space thinking about.

 

Thats exactly what I'm doing I act like i never knew her, my friend always tells me that she stares and laughs and I'll continue to ignore her until it stops because I really don't get the purpose of it... She did the dumping so she should be the one ignoring me not vice versa lol

[KevinHart]

I don't believe you Kevin.

 

I do care to an extent but it does bother em taht she's being like this...

 

She's being childish and arrogant I dont even mind being friends like wtf

She dumped me then wanted to be friends at the time I didnt want to because I still liked her but we were fine anywy we would message and stuff but for some reason she made it seem as if we're enemies because I posted a girl on my instagram story, we havent spoke since then.

 

And now shes being like this, and the worst thing is I'm gonna start going same college, she goes to lol

[Normm]

the worst thing is I'm gonna start going same college, she goes to lol

 

 

How did that happen?

[KevinHart]

How did that happen?

 

Because I got a really good business apprenticeship and I'm starting it soon at my college (There's a business department I'll be working at)

[Normm]

I meant how did it happen that out of the thousands of colleges that are available to high school graduates you two are going to the same one?

[Simple Logic]

Here is her deal... You accepted the break up to easily for her self esteem. She thought you should be miserable and erect a shrine to her honor in your heart forsaking all others. She is miffed you have moved on so quickly. Wave, smile, then put your arm around your new gal and enjoy the laugh.

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[fajberman2]

I meant how did it happen that out of the thousands of colleges that are available to high school graduates you two are going to the same one?

 

Well I'm not gonna travel 8 miles to a different college just because of my ex lol

[fajberman2]

Here is her deal... You accepted the break up to easily for her self esteem. She thought you should be miserable and erect a shrine to her honor in your heart forsaking all others. She is miffed you have moved on so quickly. Wave, smile, then put your arm around your new gal and enjoy the laugh.

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So she expected me to beg for her?

 

I mean she was basically my first, she took my virginity and stuff I mean I think she could tell that I was attached to her, so what she thought if she ends it i would beg and plead?

[HumanMachine]

She wants a reaction.

[KevinHart]

She wants a reaction.

 

Pathetic.. She dumped then wants me to react?

 

Why tho?

[stillafool]

She wont stop tho like its everytime I see her in public she does the same thing she makes it so awkward

 

Don't even glance in her direction when you see her in public. Forget she is still on this earth.

[stillafool]

Thats exactly what I'm doing I act like i never knew her, my friend always tells me that she stares and laughs and I'll continue to ignore her until it stops because I really don't get the purpose of it... She did the dumping so she should be the one ignoring me not vice versa lol

 

Tell your friends not to report to you what she is doing because you don't care.

[stillafool]

I do care to an extent but it does bother em taht she's being like this...

 

She's being childish and arrogant I dont even mind being friends like wtf

She dumped me then wanted to be friends at the time I didnt want to because I still liked her but we were fine anywy we would message and stuff but for some reason she made it seem as if we're enemies because I posted a girl on my instagram story, we havent spoke since then.

 

And now shes being like this, and the worst thing is I'm gonna start going same college, she goes to lol

 

You cannot be her friend. You still have feelings for her. Forget she is alive.

[stillafool]

Pathetic.. She dumped then wants me to react?

 

Why tho?

 

Who cares? Stop obsessing over her and move on.

[KevinHart]

Who cares? Stop obsessing over her and move on.

 

I know but it doesnt make sense

[AmyHershaw]

She sounds immature, you're better off without her. Some people expect someone they've broken up with to wish for them back and avoid others, you were right to have moved on and anyone you choose to get involved with romantically or sexually since your break up is none of her concern. You will find someone who treats you better and respects you, which is what you deserve.

[KevinHart]

You cannot be her friend. You still have feelings for her. Forget she is alive.

 

Well they're not as big as they were 3 months ago, I dont know why she cant just ignore me lol, I'm starting to feel like I did the dumping

[KevinHart]

She sounds immature, you're better off without her. Some people expect someone they've broken up with to wish for them back and avoid others, you were right to have moved on and anyone you choose to get involved with romantically or sexually since your break up is none of her concern. You will find someone who treats you better and respects you, which is what you deserve.

 

Yeah exactly, and you are right she is very immature she broke up with me because we didnt speak for 2 days lmao ( Incredible reason to break up with someone)

 

The first 2-3 weeks after breakup her friend from class told me she was goign around telling people i begged her back (For whatever reason)

 

I left it there because when she said that, the first thing that came across my mind is what a waste of time that was thankfully it lasted only 2 months, her previous partner begged her back when she dumped him so she thought i'd do the same but I didnt so now she's being a b*tch for no reason...

 

I am moving on (or at least I'm trying to)

Edited December 5, 2018 by KevinHart

[AmyHershaw]

Yeah exactly, and you are right she is very immature she broke up with me because we didnt speak for 2 days lmao ( Incredible reason to break up with someone)

 

The first 2-3 weeks after breakup her friend from class told me she was goign around telling people i begged her back (For whatever reason)

 

I left it there because when she said that, the first thing that came across my mind is what a waste of time that was thankfully it lasted only 2 months, her previous partner begged her back when she dumped him so she thought i'd do the same but I didnt so now she's being a b*tch for no reason...

 

I am moving on (or at least I'm trying to)

 

She certainly sounds it, you really don't need someone like that in your life. In all honesty, if my partner didn't talk to me for a couple of days, I wouldn't be happy (I wouldn't break up with them, but I'd question it). Were you often the one putting effort into the communication and was it usually you who started the conversations the two of you had while you weren't around each other? That was the case with me in my previous relationship and it had become one-sided. She probably wanted you to wish for her back, but she is acting immature. You will move on at some point, it just takes time, it takes longer for some than it does for others.

[ExpatInItaly]

OP, did you already post a similar thread under a different username? If so, it’s better to just stick to the same thread so us posters have the context correct