stillafool Posted December 7, 2018 Posted December 7, 2018 I take full responsibility for my behavior and texting too much. He should have just said stop texting me which he didn’t. Now he’s comparing me to his ex. He sent me like 8 texts explaining how my behavior bothers him. Went on to say that we need to let things cool off and then restart. What makes him think I would even want to? God forbid I text him at the wrong time. He’s the one who kept complaining how lonely he was before he met me now I have red flags??? Who died and made him king? Why didn't you just tell him no thanks I want to end it? Why did you let him put you on hold?
Author enchanted771 Posted December 7, 2018 Author Posted December 7, 2018 Why didn't you just tell him no thanks I want to end it? Why did you let him put you on hold? I felt it was my fault but now that I’m thinking about it, he’s not really worthy of my time
Art_Critic Posted December 7, 2018 Posted December 7, 2018 I felt it was my fault but now that I’m thinking about it, he’s not really worthy of my time Seems like you have made a decision, time to make it happen.. send him a text and see if he replies right away
bathtub-row Posted December 7, 2018 Posted December 7, 2018 I get that, but what I don’t like is how he handles conflict. He distance himself from the person/situation. That’s how he thinks it will become resolved. I’m my book, that’s called avoidance not resolution. I couldn’t tell you how he handles arguments with her. But my point is, he doesn’t make her feel ignored. The conflict between you and this guy started because he was ignoring you. If I were you, I’d stop wasting time trying to figure him out. Just cut out the cancer and move on. 2
diddilybop Posted December 7, 2018 Posted December 7, 2018 I couldn’t tell you how he handles arguments with her. But my point is, he doesn’t make her feel ignored. The conflict between you and this guy started because he was ignoring you. If I were you, I’d stop wasting time trying to figure him out. Just cut out the cancer and move on. agreed. OP, i'm not sure why you're continuing to analyze him and his past relationships. it's clearly not a good fit. time to move on! 1
Author enchanted771 Posted December 8, 2018 Author Posted December 8, 2018 I couldn’t tell you how he handles arguments with her. But my point is, he doesn’t make her feel ignored. The conflict between you and this guy started because he was ignoring you. If I were you, I’d stop wasting time trying to figure him out. Just cut out the cancer and move on. Agreed 110%. To me, it’s a huge red flag when a guy pulls back after seeing you too. I noticed that...
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