Idkanymorr Posted December 3, 2018 Posted December 3, 2018 Hello everyone! I'm asking myself what I should do and I hope that I can get some advice in here So I've been dating for a few months now (it's a "long distance" relationship, although I don't see 100km as that much) this rather shy girl which also has trust issues because of her past relationship and a few other things (mental issues) which made it harder for me to "get" her.. We had planned to meet each other before Christmas (at my place) and I'm not really sure if I should make a move on her. Lately she started to talk a lot about sex - most of the time some sexual jokes, etc. but it's more than it was before. She also started to send me a few rather revealing pictures of her.. She joked about it some weeks ago but now out of nowhere she started to share them with me. And now I don't know if these are signs that I should make a move on the day we meet or not.. I don't want to do anything stupid that would ruin our relationship and I don't want her to think that I'm only in a relationship with her because of these things.. I feel like she is forcing herself into doing this kind of stuff because she might be scared that I'll get bored with her which obviously won't happen. So any advice what I should do? Should I start slowly and just tease her and see what her reaction will be and go from there? Or should I try to ask her directly/indirectly if she want's to do it? (sounds stupid but I'm clueless). Or do these things have some other meaning? Regards idk
d0nnivain Posted December 3, 2018 Posted December 3, 2018 If a "shy" girl with mental health issues is willing to come to your house for a 1st meet. You won't have to do much. She will most likely be responsive to whatever advance you make. Do not come right out & ask if she is DTF, that is a tad crass. Kiss her & see if things escalate. Do be prepared to take no for an answer. I'm worried about your safety though. Letting a stranger into your house is never a great plan. How do you know she's not a catfish?
Author Idkanymorr Posted December 3, 2018 Author Posted December 3, 2018 (edited) Talked with her already many times over the phone/online and I know her ex personally so I know that she isn't a catfish. Edited December 3, 2018 by Idkanymorr
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